Maybe I am a combination of both......

My ultimate bias in the whole of k-pop is Kim Hyun Joong(Leader of SS5OI)..........but I think I soft stan him...........Its like when I saw him in BOF I was like 'WOWWWWW.....Someone as beautiful as him exist in this world)....his smile is so soft like a feather....his blankness( according to the role of Yoon Ji Hoo) is so comforting and light and it makes me go deep into a beautiful trance.....if I ever see him in the form of Yoon Ji Hoo in real life maybe I would have tears in my eyes when i SEE HIM SMILE.....And my time would stop for a few seconds..... and I would freeze for sure...just imagining it makes me feel that way.....and thinking about having a ual relationship with him.....IS A BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOO.........Not because he is not y or something......although I see him as more of an
ELEGANT,ANGELIC,BEAUTIFUL,TALENTED,WARM,SOFT PERSON(He literally has every quality I want in my bf and that's why its more shocking to me to find someone like that...he also is the one who quirked my interest in kpop which is an essntial part of my life now)..But obviously along with all that he is Y too.....Its proved in some of his mvs where we get to see the muscular and manly side of KHJ.....But I kind of want to keep him protected and safe(if i am ever handed the task) I did do anything and work the hell out of myself to help him in any possible way.......I did always try to keep that beautiful smile on his face if I can....i will love him even if he leaves kpop or if he is at the bottom...all in all he has casted a magic spell on me......with his acting,singing,dancing,modelling with his freaking awesome visual ...I respect him a lot and adore him....At the max I can imagine a forhead kiss....a kiss in the neck....not even a lip kiss.......i just can't......And its the same when it comes to kpop groups with
Chanyeol&Suho&Kris(EXO)........Taehyung&Suga(BTS).......Chanyeol and Taehyung gets a little exception sometimes when I am reading a hot fanfic about them...but only at those moments.....instead I imagine things with Jungkook and occasionally Jin(BTS)......Kai and occasionally Baekhyun(EXO)....So does it mean I soft stan all my Biases.....without regards to category and age....And yes I know I have too many biases but I can't help it......those people are just too wonderful for me to like only one or two....I always run after beautiful things and people... ;-P ....Wowww....damn I BLABBERED A LOT.......

I want to marry sunggyu but I never (and can't) imagine doing ual things with him

I think I'm a mixture of both coz I love them especially Jongin that's for sure that I become a hard fan because of the way I fangirl over them and sometimes my possessiveness over Jongin takes over but I'm also the soft type who feels the need to take care and nurture them hehehe I will always want what is best for them

I have two biases. Sehun and Luhan. But with Luhan, my thoughts aren't romantic? Like I'd wanna date Sehun and blah blah. I obsess over him. But Luhan, who i absolutely adore and love and obsess over, I'd never want him in that way I guess. But I actually love them both the same. Just in different ways.

I want to buy cheeseburgers for them and make them take naps. So I'm a hardcore softie.

I'm both. And I'll explain.
Jongin is my ultimate. It's something strong, and I know you can understand what I mean. I'm a hot stan when I think that he is the hottest guy alive, but I'm also a soft stan when I think it's the most precious thing in the world.
I would LOVE to find a guy like him, but -besides from the fact that I know I won't find someone like him cause he is UNIQUE- I don't want HIM as a boyfriend, cause I'm sure (100% sure) that he is gay and that the SeKai is real.
I'm that kind of stan who wants him to be happy with Sehun and Sehun only. LOL
I'm weird I know! xD

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To be honest I don't know if I'm totally a soft stan or hard stan..
ya Chanyeol is my inspiration
A ball of sunshine
He is like my family member
He makes me do lots of things
He motivates me to go on everyday with a smile everyday no matter how hard it is..
I started sketching only cause of him.. now I love sketching and he is the only reason behind it..
He opened a new road for me to choose..
how can I not love him..
And who won't want a boyfriend or a guy like this in her life.. so obviously I sometimes imagine him as my hero .. how it would be.. but ya not always maybe for few minutes or secs these imaginations pops out..

As I said he is like my family member, he is happy I'm happy ..I can't NEVER hate this person.. never ever no matter what he does..
I'll always support him with a huge sheepish smile standing 2683689542 miles away ^~^

i'm totally a soft stan of sehun.. he is my ultimate bias and 16 days older than me but heck, i nicknamed him my soft fluffy cute baby, world's most adorable baby, soft-hearted baby, beautiful little baby, my ray of sunshine [and the list goes on] my baobei ;; i feel sad and hopeless whenever he is bashed by antis he doesn't even do anything wrong LIKE WHAT THE HECK DOES MY TINY LITTLE BABY HAVE EVER DONE TO YA TILL YA HATE HIM SO BAD HE IS A SWEET SWEET FLUFFY CHILD [okay im so emo] ;; i want to cuddle him, cover him with warm soft blanket and give him biscuits and warm choco milk [because he loves choco milk, that sweetheart] and protect him from the harsh world like urgh BABY COME TO MOMMA ;;

thats why i like it when sehun is being babied by the hyongs coughchanhuncough

Damn, biases are so hard to choose for me, because even IRL I think that every person I meet is a great human being despite their flaws, so choosing a bias out of all the idols is really hard for me, but I'd have to say I have a thing for maknaes or members of the maknae line, I don't know what it is that they have but it is something that allows me to both hard and soft stan them (XD I can be a lil bit weird while fangirling).
Like for example take the whole of GOT7's maknae line, I seriously think that they are squishy little things who need to be cherished both on and off the stage but when it comes to Taemin, I hard stan him while he is performing and soft stan him when he isn't, does that make sense? It might have something to do that I don't really have an ideal type per se, apart from the person being a squishy in the streets and a beast in the sheets (Did I just say that? Oh yes, I did! Bad Girl!) which is practically what most of my biases are, so I change my stanning style based on where they are, my method of referring to them also changes based on my stanning style (Kai/Nini for hard/soft respectively).
I didn't TMI, did I?

I'm soft stan as well, even sehun is 2 years older than me but I think of him as my baby or my lil brother, sound weird isn't it haha but I just want to take care of him and protect him at all cost. I've never want to date my bias though my other ultimate bias is Donghae and I think of him as my big brothers. I think it's because both of them are not my ideal type of boyfriend cause irl i like to date a guy who is funny, charming like Chanyeol or Baekhyun, for me these two are really boyfriend material >_<

I totally find Sehun-oppa all y, HOT and that but at times ............... yeah, I mean He's about 7-8 yrs older than me but sometimes I find myself talking about how precious, cute, etc. he is.... like a child,....... but I still find oppa smokin' hot .......................................
so i don't really know......................... but with my other biases(except for Jin of BTS) I sometimes find myself just wanting to be their little sister, even with Hunnie....

Man, I have 11 Ultimate Biases and while I do have then in a list my TOP 4 are equal and like I soft stan and hard stan those 4.

It's so hard for me to decide.

I think I would be considered more of a hard stan though.

But like at the same time I'm a soft stan as well cause, like yes, while I would love to date my biases (minus Vernon cause he is and forever shall be my son), I also just want to protect them and be their best friend and take care of them like a mama bear would her cub.

Like maybe I should put it in rock terms and call myself a soft-CORE fan.