Please help

 

Hello, this is my first blog post.  The reason I post this because something is bothering me.

Okay.  Let's start.

 

I have some weird thing going on with my friend, where we always so awkward with each other.  If my other friends are not around us...we just turn dead silent.

I admit, I have a crush on my friend since last year.  And I am not sure whether my friend has the same feeling as me.

Recently, we became closer.  Which is really good, we can actually have a conversation.  This is the thing that's bothering me: 

 

It happened in Science lesson, my other friend sat between us.  Don't remember the details but somehow we held hands.

Yep, held hands.

 

Of course, I need to keep my cool so I said:

 

"Your hands are so cold..."

 

My friend replied:

"Yeah...At least you are holding mines now..."

 

What the hell?  What's that supposed to mean?

Please guys help me!   

 

 

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jmbaculao #1
Uh I think they all said it :D
tinydream
#2
Rrrrr its so fluffy o>, <o

I am not an expert about something like this.
Eemm i think he is interest with you. That is a good start you know..
Good luck and dont make a rush decision ^^

Fightiing~~
Nisree
#3
I think that this friend likes you back like you like them so congrats It would be good to not rush things and let things go slow and wait for them to ask you out if they haven't I wish you luck ;)
SoOnceVelvet #4
If a guy is comfortable with you, and talks to you then it most likely means that he likes you only as a friend. But if he's shy and reserved around you, then that most likely means he likes you more than a friend, which is why he's more cautious to do or say stuff around you, when it's just the two of you. I think he likes you!! Congrats!! I'd suggest not to rush things but just go with the flow lol.
MiyunYuri
#5
OMFG FOR ME THAT TOTALLY MEANS YOUR FEELINGS ARE RETURNED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!! YOU'RE SO LUCKY!!!!!!!!!!!!! <333
I think you should risk and tell him/her your feelings, because IF YOU HOLD HANDS, and he/she said THAT, OMG for me that totally means he/she likes you back!!
However, it may not be the case, since I don't know neither the person or the whole situation...
Maybe you should just wait some time and see if he/she confesses to you, so that you don't ruin your friendship...
I know I maybe didn't help at all but well, I'm not experienced in this, not even a little bit (yeah, I'm single since birth *laughs awkwardly*)
Anyway *puts personnal stuff in the last drawer of the wardrobe*, GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then tell us something ;))))))))))
Emycyingztars
#6
Also, I might need to know hOW you started holding hands.
Emycyingztars
#7
Ok haha first of all that is absolutely great fanfic fluff material (sorry if that annoys you but I'm taking advantage of this whoops).

On a serious tone, he probably likes you. Does he have friends that are potential subjects of iterest? No? He only knows you? Then he's probably INTERESTED (not love) in you. You always wait. If he likes you, (and you DON'T! show any friend-zone attitude to him), then he WILL come to you and confess. If he doesn't:

1) he doesn't like you
2) he is an absolute intellectual cutie pie and will wait for YOU to confess but that's unlikely bc he FKING HELD YOUR HANDS HELLO
3) is still confused about question fifteen in the science textbook
4) a snowman (idk)

(Personal experience). (If you're reading this, Matthew, I'm sorry for being stupid and not accepting for three years and counting so lol maybe until we're fifty and balding grey.

Anyways, I hope I helped with my personal experiences and good luck! No hurt feelings and stay true to yourself :3
lovebonniechun
#8
I would just say, don't think too much about it. Yeah there's that possibility that the friend may like you back.
But it can also be that he was just joking around since he needed to reply to what you said.
"Your hand is so cold." What is he going to say with that? He can't say anything serious otherwise the mood would spiral down .
I'm not trying to make your mood down as I'm trying to think in different possibilities.
However, from personal experience, don't get ahead of yourself otherwise it can ruin your friendship.
vanillasushi
#9
I think when a guy is awkward and silent, he probably likes you and is too shy to say anything...
candyasalways
#10
Idk but that sounded like flirting to me. I hope it goes well!
TheAnamenia
#11
Honey that means your love is blooming nothing to worry about :D I'm pretty sure your friend likes you and will confess to you soon so be prepared! ^^
kookiegirl17 #12
I can feel you in a way. I also have a friend that i am/was close with. But once all of our friends started teasing and shipping us together, we stopped talking. We act like we are strangers. I think i like him but i don't know. I'm really confused.
10JAE01 #13
for me it's a friend gesture because we always do that kind of stuff but the "at least you are holding mines now" part i think he/she likes you.
hazelpunch
#14
You can tell your friend that you like your friend. I too like my friend and every time our friends tease us we become awkward to each other but we always chat or text, but I never expressed my feelings vocally so I kinda regret that. I hope you won't make the same mistakes as I did.