Can anyone help? My parents are divorcing.

Hello beautiful creature of the internet, lately I've been in the best conditinons in China. All my friends are with me and like you know, it's chill. 

It was chill until yesterday.

The thing is, while me and my mum are in Canada, my dad is here in China so we visit him every year, but for some strange reasons they just don't like each other. They would literally start a fight over a ing bowl. Like what the hell? Anyway, I go to school in Canada so I can't come back. 

Yesterday night my dad told mum that he had enough, they should divorce, my mom cried so much like BRO I was really pissed off at my dad's actions and . He was drunk when he told mum that he want a divorce, so she couldn't say anything to him, I tried, he just pushed away. 

I obviously cried, cause I'm still a littler kid...and a girl. But that didn't stop dad from saying 'we're gonna split.' 

And now I'm stuck with the worst situation a 13 years old kid could be in, dad said that he's tired of having fights with mum and I was like 'Bruh, you haven't ever TRIED to contact us in 6 years while we've been in Canada and you're saying that we're the bad guys?.' 

Mum said splitting is not much a problem. BUT. Me and my mum don't have any sort of income in Canada because my mom's english is the poorest of the poorest. And our only incomes comes from dad, which is the boss of a company MY MOM MADE. IT'S NOT EVEN HIS, AND HE'S TAKING MORE INCOME THAN HE SHOULD BE. 

So if they break up, or divorce, or split, whatever you call it...we;re not gonna last long, I mean, my mum's got money, but there's not consistant income anymore. And dad is not gonna send us any cause they've split. 

I really feel bad for mum, she can't come back because of me, but if they split...please comment and help...I don't know what to do. 

URGENT PLEASE HELP!

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ellip-sism
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oh gosh, that is terrible! :'( I feel bad for you, dear. But I cannot give you any reasonable help, because my parents are also annulled. Let me just ask you if your parents don't love each other anymore. I know that's really rude, but that is the most important thing you have to take note of. I asked my mother, and well, the answer was really downright honest. SO if it's you, look and observe your parents. That is the key, because if nothing's really working out in the family, then the chance is very nil. I'm sorry, I'm not trying to scare you, it's just from experience. I hope for the very best for you.