Help me Please..!!

Guys I really need your opinion and suggestion for something that I just can’t figure out.

So, there is a guy with whom I am chatting for two months now, we’re gud friends now.
We have so much things in common. But yesterday, he asked for my number and I denied it, he is acting normal but I am feeling it really weird.
Even if he is sleepy he endures it for some time so that we both can talk but yesterday in the midst of chatting (he felt weird to me while chatting) he suddenly said gud nyt and bye, I told him to stay a bit long but he denied and went offline. He never do’s that at least he wishes me gud nyt and bye after I say him gud nyt but yesterday it was all a contrast. I have trust issues with boys, I never trust boys, be it a boy whom I know for 10 years or 2 months I never trust them. But what do I do? I have a feeling that this could affect our friendship ..

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Soona3 #1 Jun 30, 2016 09:45:50

I understand you completely and I think what you are doing is completely normal and actually smart. Because social media can be really dangerous and you don't know who is behind that screen. If you haven't, I really advise you to tell him that it isn't because you don't like him or don't trust him, it's because it isn't safe and that you aren't ready. Because even with people you see everyday in real life and know how they look like, exchanging numbers are going to a whole another level, don't talk about people you chat online. I am sure he will understand so don't put too much stress on it.

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TamTamlovesChanYeol #2 Jun 30, 2016 07:16:26

Hmm maybe you could ask him what's wrong? Ask him about ytd's situation,and if he gives signs that say "i wanna be alone" i guess you should give him some space :)
You should be lucky having being able to experience talking to a guy late at night. The 2 closest guy friends i have are only at the borderline of friends,not close and we rarely talk. I would die to have a guy talk to me but I'm too shy xD i wish you good luck though! Hopefully you'll be able to sort things out :)