Why is it so painful?

why is it so painful when you have lost someone? Why is it so painful that you have not lost only a friend but a life companion? Why is it so painful that you have tried so hard to keep this friendship the way it is but it eventually drifts apart? Why is it so painful that you have been nothing but a loyal and honest friend but you don't get the same response? Why is it painful that distance has to be the cause of it? Why is it painful that you feel your the only one holding your end of the string when the other end has been left on the ground?     Why is it painful that your friend gives u vague answers and does not tell you the complete truth? 

Why is it so ing painful?!

 

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YiTingx #1
It's painful because there's a void where that person once used to be.It's painful because we don't know what to do, how to fill that void.

We feel that sense of wrongness, of something that used to be.

And there are plenty of people in the world going through this kind of thing, and don't we all know it... But I guess it still hurts. Even though you know it's all going to fade away, it still aches.

But you know what? Even though you might feel stressed right now. Confused, lost, hurt.

It really will be alright. I'm not telling you to replace that person.

What I personally felt was that you get this sense of... Freedom, I guess. No longer do you have that question hanging around you, 'What am I to you?'. You'll find that you know where you stand.

Maybe you'll even be able to forgive. (Even though you won't forget)

And hey, if you ever need someone to talk to, rant to about the unfairness of it all.

I'll be here ^^
Mercy825 #2
Because are humans we can't help but hurt eachother its in our nature. Stay strong my dear
chan-sick #3
Aww, I'm sorry;-; You can't always read someone else's minds, but it seems that your friend is being kinda selfish here :( I've been there too, but it does get easier when time passes. And yes, it's painful. It always is, losing an important person is a hard thing to bear. Stay strong ♡
sleepingprince #4
Because you feel too deep and you know too much . I hope you feel better soon . Stay strong .
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