I have cousins who is half Asian (Mien) and half Caucasian, Filipino, Mexican, Laos, Thai, Hmong, Vietnamese, and Chinese from both sides of the family.

My grandma being the judgemental person she is doesn't like us as in me and my siblings to have or marry our boyfriend or girlfriend who isn't Mien. Like she's holding grudges against us since most of my aunts and uncle have or either married to someone out of our race. When she found out that my older brother is dating a Hmong girl. She lectured him saying this and that. She almost found my boyfriend now Ex is Chinese. Now that I like this Japanese guy who lives in Japan. I have to keep it a secret if me and him are dating from my grandma. Most of my family are fine with us but not her. ╮(╯_╰)╭

The reason why most of us are not going for our own race is because we are most likely related by blood or by marriage. Like she needs to understand that What's so wrong with having a mix race family. (눈▽눈)（；￣д￣）