Hi, it's me.

I have no other place to rant so I'll rant here instead.  You can skip this if you're one of those deluded " fans"who just think your beloved group is the best and say the rest all because what I am gonna rant about is something similar.

But anyway I have rambled too much, so here goes.

I joined a few kpop whatsapp groups to find like-minded people in the past month.  Some groups were big and some were small.  Didn't really matter to me cause after all, kpop was one family and most of us were practically multi-fandom anyway.  We try to keep within the boundaries and for groups that were strict we just kept to that topic.

Sad to say, one of the chat groups I joined (I shan't mention the kpop group they stan) was quite big, with about 60-70 people in it.  Most were nice BUT I suppose in every group you have to have an or two who has no brain-to-mouth filter and goes around offending people with thoughtless and offensive comments.

So this incident happened today:

Apparently there was an online poll between a male and female singer, and the male singer was winning/leading in the poll.

People in fandom group started to send the link, asking to vote for the female (it was her fandom group) and some were questioning why so little votes for the female or the fans weren't voting .

And then came along this :
"Wanna know why we are not voting?
Cause we don't need this poll to prove she is better than him
Everyone knows she is better
They just need this to make themselves feel better
Sorry if I hurt any of the male idol's fans here."

Well, in the first place why the hell would you write such a thing knowing it is hurtful?  Secondly, poll?  Then why are you guys still asking people to vote?  Also thirdly, my bias in that group is the female, and my bias is not that male in the group BUT yet I feel that I have to defend him and the fans because it is so bloody insulting.

I didn't want to argue and start a fanwar in the group chat because having chased kpop for 8years I assume this kind of comment is made by those people who are either pathetic or just bloody deluded.

I just responded with the following:
"Uh well, thanks for the diss.
I have a lot of things I want to say but I will not start a fanwar here.
This just proves to me how hard being multi-fandom is."

And then I left the chat group.

Look, I get the fact that this is your fandom group BUT that does not give you the right to put down or insult other groups.  And yeah, I do have a lot of things to retort back but honestly, why even bother because this is not the first time said has been offending people with his words.  But ok since I needed a place to rant, I will rant eh whatever I want to say below.

1. You realize this kind of comment is just a loser mentality?  The fact that they can't win so they insult?  You're like that, probably thinking your bias is the best.
2. You insulted the male group's best singer. If it was a male visual vs the female singer I won't say anything because as a stan of that group I know that the visual definitely will lose.  However, seasoned kpop fans know he is one of the best in the industry and he is considered to be on the same level as her so again you being deluded.
3. You don't farking apologize if you already knew your words are gonna hurt.  If you knew that was gonna happen, then why the fark would you say such thoughtless stuff?  Oh wait you're a deluded I forgot.
4. BY INSULTING OTHER GROUPS IT JUST TELLS ME ONE THING -  YOU ARE NOT CONFIDENT OF YOUR OWN HENCE THE DISS AND INSULT.  If you stoop to insulting other groups, there isn't much fight because your mind is that of a deluded person who can't listen to reason.
5. She is my bias and yet I have to defend a non-bias from you because you are so bloody insane about her that you have lost all thought or reason.  If you are brave enough, say that comment in one of the kpop articles.  Oh wait you aren't that's why you only keep it in the local chat group.  Well too bad for you.

Alright, rant over.
If you're still here reading, I humbly thank you for reading through my anger and angsty post.  I welcome opinions and viewpoints - unless you agree with the fact that putting down other groups to "protect or defend" your own, otherwise let's be friends ^^