OK I know you- for whatever reason- may like 50 shades of grey. But let me write this out for you.

What he does in that story is not how the community behaves. He does not stop when she uses the safe word, which makes what he does . He controller her diet and exercise which isn't real at all. There is no contract. He doesn't trust her. Basically it's a ing abusive relationship told as if it is a love story.

It's not.

As a switch who has seen both sides of a relationship take this into consideration. This was not . In any way. 

And to top that off this is not only badly written and a horrible representation of . This was also originally a Twilight Fanfic. An Au Twilight Fanfic. And it is even worse that Twilight.

Next time you want , Google it. There is better written online. that portrays the community and relationships accurately. Google is your friend. 

And most importantly, it's free.

Rant over. Sorry if I hurt anyones feelings but this seriously pisses me off. He was abusive, her, and did not follow protocol. This is not real but it does harmfully portray the community and it takes what we do and twists it.

You want a good story? Read Sunstone. It's free on deviantArt or you can buy it via Amazon. And it portrays is the right way.