ok since this has been bothering me ever since 2014 lmao

since there has been a lot of idols dating issues, im gonna write this aight.
it's my opinion and it's up to you to be butthurt by what i'm going to say or not.
im just saying this to just idk bcs im somehow fed up at some people.

 

 

ok here's a thing ok

you are NOT an immature fan just because you don't support your idol's love life.
just because you love your idol, doesn't mean that you have to supoort EVERYTHING he / she does.
oh so if he / she does drug, would you still support him / her??? no you won't. and if you do then you're an idiot.
that's not so relevant but you get what i'm trying to say.

you can't force yourself to support something. 
so don't throw bull at people who doesn't support kaistal or minho x suzy (idk their couple name nor i do want to know so don't tell me idc really) or any other idols that are dating.
oh, you support kaistal or baekhyun with that person or suzy x minho?
then good for you.
don't shove it to other people's face that you're supporting them.
because some might not support them.
and don't butthurt at those who don't support them.
because you can't make EVERYONE to love what you love aight.
you have your own preferance, others too so shut the hell up.
some are okay with their fav idols to date and some don't.
if you're okay with your fav idols dating, tHEN GOOD FOR YOU.
let them who aren't okay to be that way until they're okay.
YOU DON'T FORCE PEOPLE.
YOU DON'T SHOVE ABOUT IT TO THEIR FACES.

ok?

i personally don't support any of my fav idols dating (esp baek and that person - lol i don't even want to write her full name).
i personally hate their 'otp' (do they even have one lol) to be honest.
i personally don't support kaistal even though i'm not a fan of jongin or krystal.
i just don't support their love lives.
BUT i don't shove to everyone's faces that i don't support kaistal and hate baekhyun with that person.
(im shoving to everyone's faces today bcs im frustrated as )
WHY? because there are people who support them and i don't want to start off a war or a fight by saying "LOL I HATE THEM"
AND SECONDLY, because you don't talk about something you HATE. ok.
because why waste your time talking about something you hate???? lmao
i personally think that it is not worth my time to talk about them.

i know and understand 200000% that idols too deserve to have love lives.
then okay yeah go on and date but i ain't supporting.
that's all.
it's not like i'm SOMEBODY to them for them to get my blessings lmao.
go on and ing date i don't care but i ain't supporting and that's that.

you are NOT an immature fan to feel that way.
some are okay with idols dating and some are not.
let everyone lives by the way they want to ok.
don't force gdi.

you DON'T force yourself to support something or someone.
you DON'T force yourself to love something or someone.
you DON'T shove about it to their faces.
you just DON'T. 
you are an if you do that.

 

i don't really mind if you're going to bash me or whatever because i'm sick of having to listen to people saying that people who don't support idols dating are IMMATURE. frick whatever man i'm so frustrated.

 

 

- jihye

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shineeinfinite #1
FINALLY! You really put my feelings in EXCELLENT words!!
Hayagi #2
''i know and understand 200000% that idols too deserve to have love lives.
then okay yeah go on and date but i ain't supporting.''
You know... I don't think it's bad if fans don't support idols when they date. But there's a difference between 1. just not supporting them; and 2. hating on them and sending death-threats or something like that (since some fans really do that).
So.. it's fine if you don't support them (in my opinion). But I'm curious, why do you hate those female idols? (Or did you hate them even before they started dating your favorite idols?
real__yoda
#3
preach jihye preach