Due to the concerns spreading about the issue of KaiStal dating, I guess I have to speak out too. This is merely my perspective. Don't get me wrong. It's just that some people are crossing the boundaries already in SNS.

For all Kai Stans and KaiSoo Shippers:

Until now, it is still not easy for me to accept reality. At some point, most of us are into hopes and delusions that at one moment in our life, he will notice us.

But after the breaking news, I broke down just like most of the Kai stans out there.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a hater nor a shipper.

Maybe, just like the others, I just grew so attached to this being that it makes hard for me to let him go easily.

But, who am I not to accept the reality? I’m just a mere fan who promised to support them and love them no matter what happens.

Most of the people out there will tell us, move on. Yes, eventually we have to move on and we are trying. At this point in our life, mature or not, new or old in fandom, we need understanding and support. (I'm old and working. I still have emotions. Duh! I'm capable to get hurt too.)

We, Kai stans or even KaiSoo shippers, please understand our place. Don't judge us. We have our different ways to cope up with the pain and understand and accept reality. Some are strong enough while some are weak to the point that they inflict injuries to themselves. People like them needed more understanding not to be reprimanded and to be judge. 

We know our end. It just hurt and it is not that easy to move on. If we can just do that as easy as many people will say the words – we will be greatly happy and thankful because we don’t have to undergo to the painful process of living in the reality and moving forward with our own lives. We understand your opinion but sometimes let's apply, "less talk, less mistakes" because not everybody will be able to understand your perspective easily and it is like adding more salt to the cut. 

As a fan, I know how it feels. I guess, we really have to take our steps slowly even it means going through the painful process. We have to face our fears of letting go of someone that we know at the first place, we will never have.

Let’s do our best to be happy for the couple.

Remember, we are born to be happy, to love and to be loved.

I know we can move on and go on with our lives.

AJA! FIGHTING!