Does he like you?

I say this all the time to my friends, "If a guy truly like you HE WILL talk to you!" Aka, he will build up courage and ask you out! Guys are like the cat for example and women are like the mouse. The mouse don't chase the cat. When you like him too much, it's okay to show a bit of affection (skinship) and if he likes you back he will tell you in secret (could be through text or whatever device). If he doesn't make a move and it's been a year, MOVE ON! It's obvious he doesn't like you. So to hell with him, you deserve better. Guys aren't as complicated as girls. They usually go for what they want dispite challenges or being a shy person. Hopefully this helps. Xoxo!

(Yes girls, you can always make the first move too, this is a very broad advice)

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GongjuSami #1 Feb 23, 2016 07:58:36

Yes you are also correct. My advice is very broad. If I had time I'd write an essay on both parties. But this is a general broad advice I'm giving like 'long story short' kind of advice. But like you said right? He never even told you he liked you. So then how could you have known? You can't wait on someone forever. When the time is right he will come and tell you. This advice only work if you like him too and you're giving him signs but he just isn't budging. Thank you for your comment. Have a bless day!

IamOtaku #2 Feb 23, 2016 07:51:30

A guy had been interested with me for 4 years now (I think) and I would've never figured that out if his friends didn't pretty much tattooed it in my forehead. He seems genuine, and many guys are like that too, but I think not every guy has the guts to confess or something like that. Relationships are made from both parties' consent anyway, not just by the effort of one.

GongjuSami #3 Feb 23, 2016 07:46:07

I agree with you 100% on it going both ways. But it's still a man's initiative to be the first to make the move especially if the girl likes him already but she sees no sign of his affection for her. This is all towards confusion on a guy's affection towards her NOT stating that a guy can't be courted. It's a general advice given not a poll. But everyone's entitle to their own opinion and I respect that. Have a bless day!

CaptSunRiser #4 Feb 23, 2016 07:19:16

Not really. There had been girls that I've really liked but I have been so scared to confess to. And these girls I have watched from afar for over a year. And I get the courage to confess to them and I see them and ... I just lose the courage. Not all guys have the guts to declare their love for someone, and not all guys are prepared to do it over text or whatever. There are also other barriers like culture or upbringing or even shame of their own. Not every guy is overflowing with confidence and self belief and some guys are much more complicated than girls.

That being said, a girl shouldn't wait for him to make the move if she likes him. A) This is the 21st Century, not the 1st Century. Women and men can do pretty much the same things now. And B) she needs closure too. If he doesn't like her then she needs to know.