Advice needed
Hey people
Jules here...
So this not very good thing happend today.. so as I mentioned in my previous blog i have a friend called Charlie.
Let me paint you a picture of how me, and most of the world sees her:
She's a very sweet and loving person, we immediatly clicked when we meet. She is currently in her mid teen years. Her parents are separated (not divorced) and they work most of time.
Charlie is a very lazy person. She also isn't very good in school. Since she's too old to repeat a year in school they let her pass with about four insufficient grades. I try to help her but she struggles a lot, I think it's also thanks to her past. Her mom would hit her occationally in elementary school, she used to come to school with hand marks on her legs and she would always be late.
Since her parents aren't there for her, she isn't very good at differentiating good and bad (doesn't help that she's hard-headed). I love her with all my heart I swear..... but recently she's been hanging with the wrong croud (for me). See I'm not popular at all, yet she is like middle class of popularity. I don't really care for popularity because I wont know any of these es when school ends. They can make fun for my tastes and likings but went I'll have a better job than them and be more fortunate than them they can kiss my .
Anyway back to Charlie, she has been drinking and smoking. Remember she's still a teenager, still not legal. The big problem is that it's not the first time she has smoked.... she did last year too. I try to help her but she wont listen to me... I cried on the phone with her because I worry for her health... it's obviously not good for her young age. I don't know what to do... I can't ask for help because most of teens in our school smoke and it's pretty 'normal'. If you're not European but you've visited Europe you will see how many more smokers there are here than other places.
I really need advice from strangers on what to do. Should I let her be? Should I tell someone? Ahh I really don't know.. I'm suffering because of this .... yet I love her so much.
Thanks for reading <3
PS: if you have any funny or cute videos please tell me so I can try to feel better :)
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