Can anyone help me?

My first blog post! :)

So yes, just like the title, I'm needing helps from from you, and now the story will begin.

I think I have some social problems in my class, and I don't have many friends. I always think that I'm just a useless person in the whole class, because usually, people don't come and talk to me unless they have some questions to ask, OR complain about their personal life, and so on....

It's not like that I hate it when they only come to me for those things, but it'd be better if they just come to me for other reasons too. It feels like as they only have me in their minds when they have problems, but they will forget me as soon as they have smiles on their faces. And now, I'm thinking of avoiding them as much as possible, because, well, yes, I tried not avoiding them (lots of times) and the result is the same. They only see me whenever they face hardships.

Another thing is that, avoiding them will be better for my friends, and me, and the reason is that they deserve friends who are much more better than me. Like I've said earlier, I'm a useless person, so there's no need for me to be with them any longer, and I don't see the importance of me to them either. Should I stay, or should I leave my friends alone so that things will get easier?

Please drop an advice or solutions if there's any possibility. Thank you so much for spending your precious time reading my blog post. Bye~

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exo12peterpan
#1
I feel you because I kinda have the same situation with you. And please don't say that you're useless. You're great in your own way.
Well, I think you should be honest with them about how you feel (lol I've never done that xD) You should stay away from them and see if they notice the difference of your attitude. If they just act like usual I don't think they deserve to be your friend. Because you deserve someone who is better at treating you. But srsly I'm in no place to be telling you this tbh. Just do anything that makes you happy bcs you need to think about yourself too.
voiladeux
#2
Heyyy don't say that ur useless.. You're not okay ?
I think they don't deserve to be your friend actually.. Better you just leave them for your benefit :) try to avoid them and when they tried to express their feelings just ignore them. Or rather just saying you're busy and doesn't have time to hear that. Hahaha xD
It's okay you have me as your friend :3
Trey_Desu
#3
Nobody is useless. I say, if they just seek you for problems and ranting, then they're not your friends, just your acquaintances. Actually friends, as you should guess, comes to you for anything whether it be talking about something exciting, sad, horrifying, or amazing. If someone is willing to tell you all about themselves, and you are willing to do the same, then that person is a true friend. You'll get one some day. Why don't you try avoiding them and see if they miss talking to you or miss having you by their side? Recently, a friend of mine stopped following me around. I sort of enjoyed the peace because she started to feel like a stalker and I wanted my space, but then after a few days, I realized that I really missed talking to her and having her around. If your "friends" don't feel the same way about you, then just drop them.
EriTay
#4
dont say you're useless bcuz ur not. if u ask me u deserve better friends yourself