Helppppp!

Alright. Iknow i haven't been here in ages but i need u guys to help me on something. Iv been dating this guy n its been about 6months now . It is a long distance relationship but the distance didnt rly bother us we find eachother so perfect matches n evrything. But since last week, he's telling me that he can't handle the distance anymore n its that hard for him to even make him give me up. I know he loves me , i am sure. Iv bn telling him that we can manage evrything if we still stay together but he is so stubborn. He actually wants us to b just friends for now. N i am not ready for that. I cant see him just as a friend when iknw i love him this much. Chingudeul please tell me what iv to do to save my relationship from getting ruined. P.s he is my first true love n iv no plans to give him up or date another guy!

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liyumekdi #1 Nov 21, 2015 14:04:52

is he Ethiopian?

sekaii #2 Nov 21, 2015 11:05:48

some times if you love a person you have to let the person go.
along the way things may had changed for him and not you. a relationship takes two and not one. if you're the only one trying and he's not giving much effort to stay intact then it's best to give him some space to think awhile.
it's your first love and you'd probably never forget youre first love since most people dont, but you will have many loves later on.

kimmiekimmuackzzzzz #3 Nov 21, 2015 09:31:27

Im juz saying... What if he is trying to find a reason to break up? Dat he is juz making excuses. U know about campus life.. There is competition n between boys.. Mebbe they are forcing him on something~~. I dunno...

IceCream13 #4 Nov 21, 2015 08:45:08

Hmmmm... I personally agree with the last comment. >_< You've already tried to keep your relationship intact and you obviously love him enough to fight for him but there's not really a point if he's not fighting with you, is there? A relationship has to strong on both sides not just one and I'm sure with time your relationship will find it's own direction. But maybe try and explain things from your side? If you'll find it hard to be friends, let him know and if you really do love him enough to hold on then let him know. Who knows, maybe he'll have a change of mind and possibly some determination for your relationship? But if you've already done so, and he still insists on a breakup, then I think it's best to set him free for now.
I hope I haven't said anything harsh towards you and I wish you all the best of luck! ;)