Bullies? Bullied? how to stop them?

I just here to say that, I never get bullied and this is not about me. Hahaha.

For me, I came to asianfanfics = to write. And little by little, to make friends. I never treat asianfanfics as my media to run away from real life. I have a satisfying real life.

So yeah, i write story just to share my delusional minds with other, who also love the OTP i like. And to write out my fantasy, so i will have time to reminiscing it whenever i want. And I like reading story, and i started to write because i couldn't find a story that I want to read, so i write on my own, lol.

But then, just a minutes ago i read a blog about a girl who get bullied at school, and she said aff is her safe place. Then I started to think... 

Why people bully each other? What is the reason? Why they can't stop?

Have any of you experienced this kind of things? Have any of you experienced bullying and maybe, you are the one who bullied others?

To be honest, i never get bullied by people. I never experienced that kind of things. And i never found someone who's been bullied in my life. But, i'm starting to get curious. Because, my friend on twitter, just got a trouble recently, and watching as people who doesn't even know her said all those bad things on twitter, no-mention too, i felt kinda sick.

Is it our culture who made us think that being bad is the newest "cool kid"? To be honest, i read a lot of bully stories in AFF, and in every stories i still found that every reason are ridiculous. Lol. That's why i never write something in that genre.

(Well i wrote a "Mark Grey Tuan" story before but it's not bullying. It's . It's different. I think it's different)

So yeah, if any of you guys experienced this kind of things, can you share the story with me? Hahahaha. I'm just curious and i want to know. I think i'm looking for the acceptance...

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ashininglight #1
Bullying can wary a lot, if I say so myself. Many say that even if you're just called names, and you don't like them, then it's not bullying. But it actually is.
I've experinced verbal bullying for 8 of my 9 years of going to school, and it's not nice to experience that kind of thing. I may not be physical, but verbal bullying hits really hard at the mental part. I turned shy and introvert, simply because I was called all kinds of things every day.
I almost gave up, but then I discovered things like anime, and other people, besides me, liked it, and then came kpop and then came aff, and it made me more open.
Aff is kind of my safe haven, but just the thought of being able to be with someone who can make me think happy thoughts, is enough. I don't need more than that, and I probbly never will.
Sorry, I read the post and just began rambling, ^^'
-SunnieBunnie- #2
Well....that's a very touchy subject for me I get bullied every day non stop ever since pre school I get asked out by guys as a joke and my name is a joke to people....it feels really bad but then I remember I've got 3-4 friends that care about me and it makes .u day better
constipatedpotato #3
Often times, people bully the ones who can't fit in. I was once bullied when I was in elementary because I was a HUGEEEEEEE introvert and I'd rather watch KPOP and anime all day than socialize with them -3- But yeah, I slowly went out of my shell XD People bully others just for fun and laughs and it's horrible TT
khunwoorld #4
Bullying is a story of my life too
MissMinew #5
sure as should be different than bullying, because those are not alike at all.
There's a ton of reasons people bully. It but no, it's not always "bad boy is the coolest" because more often than not, it's not cool to be the bully. The most cliche (and probably true reason) is the bully taking out their own insecurities on someone who's an easy target. I understand why you would feel that any reason is stupid, but please don't feel that way - being bullied often leaves mental scars and it might take years for the bullied to recover.
As much as bullying , I don't think there's a way to stop it. Finding and make fun of the easy target has always been happening.
Keep in mind that many don't actively bully, they just step aside and watch in silence, which is just as bad as being an active bully.
fefedove #6
there is always that one person who everyone else decides they dislike, whether it is true dislike or just going with the flow. it's not a good thing, but it just happens.. idk..
and a lot of ppl say that bullies are like that because they feel inferior and whatnot, but i don't think it's true. some people are just plain *ssholes, some see nothing wrong with what they're doing etc
mochilicious- #7
Other people are getting bullied because they can't fit in with the society. Well, that's how I know it. It's really hard to explain...
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