WHY AM I ALWAYS LEADING TO A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP?

Hey there to anyone who willing to read my stories.,

      well,recently there was a very good friend of mine saying that i should forget about her,starting my new life without her. Actually,im very shocked and frightened about it. But yeah, whatever it is i admit my faults. i've been very busy with myself,school,studies, family and my business that i seems to ignore her. But, honestly i am not! Is it my destiny that when i feel like to start a relationship its all go to drain? Is it just me? Is it wise for her to do this to me? without talking to me first and discuss? tbh,i feel so sad and kind of traumatic cause i had a so-called broken friendship with my 7 years-friend. sometimes, i feel like scared to start another relationship moreover with guys,,u know that kind of romance relationship.i dont want to feel regret anymore. im afraid to fall indeed. is it just me or God wants to test me?

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arinachoi92
#1
well, for starters...nothing is resolved without properly talking over the situation. a 7 year friendship is no joke and i honestly think it is worth treasuring because one day u might need that old friend of yours to pull u back to the right path. and maybe u should at least make an effort to nurture the friendship. friendships are like gardens. they need tender love, time, and effort. if u feel that she is someone who you care dearly for, then probably try to segregate your time properly that she doesnt feel ignored and make her in your priority list. i mean i understand her pov...she might feel neglected or that she is the only one making the effort to keep the friendship alive. but then again, tell her that she too needs to understand, not all your time is committed to her. u guys dont have to see each other every day...everyone needs their me time every ones and a while.. a strong relationship doesnt need to connect every second of the day but every time u do, it was as if u guys talked literally everyday.
Official_Author_KiKi
#2
Have u try workin it out w/ her