I need Advice..

Alright. So, I'm a really dense person, I tend not to notice things that happen around me, or realize that my actions can mean something else to other people.

 

So, a couple days ago, one of my guy friends saw me using the sketchbook he gave me. He confronted me about it and asked if I liked him beacuse I was using hs gift. He tried to assure me that he wasn't interested in me that way. WTF. I had not thought of it that way, I just thought, YAAY FREE STUFF. SAVE MONEY ON ART SUPPLIES. 

 

Was I sending him THOSE type of messages? I don't get it, nope.

 

Now, my other guy friend, we're practically brother and sister. But then he started to be really weird recently.. He was sitting  next to me, and he started rubbing my thigh, and I was like TF are you doing? Then, he just replied saying my thigh was squishy. It got weirder, when he kept touching my face, hugging me in class, then holding my hands.. Then today, we were at a party and out of nowhere, he starts grinding on me...and dancing with me all touchy like UHH.. so I got uncomfortable and pushed him away.. 

 

What's wrong with him? Is he just being weird? What does this mean? Please help..

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kitkatkitty61 #1
well the first guy that you talk to seems kinda jokey around ish, unless he was like actually acting serious, then i have no idea whats going on LOL
but the second guy i think is trying to get a move on you. but in like a kind of offensive way. if you didnt like him touching you, you should tell him immediately and if he doesnt stop, you should probably stop talking to him cause thats kind of innapropriate..
MiniiPandaa #2
Well I mean the first guy sounds like he was just joking around with you because I have guy friends that act like that with me. I mean my guy friend teases me all the time and asks me if I like him cause I always wear his jackets at school. I mean if you think of him as a friend then it shouldn't be that much of a problem.

But for the second guy, I see it two ways. He could be attracted towards you because of how touchy he was. If you guys are close, then he could have developed something towards you. But at the party, did you check if he drank alcohol? Because it could be a factor towards his behavior towards you. Or, he straight up just wants to get in your pants and because you guys are close, so he could see it as an easy gateway to get laid yknow? Because guys could be Hella slow when it comes to relationships and he could have misread your closeness as that you have something towards him.
aznawzmao #3
Second guy must have some hormones going out of wack and you should totally stay away for a while.
Unless you don't want to, because do you boo, but I think this guy needs some rejection if you want him to stop.
The first guy is also teasing you, either because he's interested or he likes making you uncomfortable. Merph. IDK
RynnieWu #4
What i think is the first guy can be just joking or wayy to weird and a freak. If im at your place, i'll just ignore it but if he do anything that i feel disadvantage me. I'll really show who's he messing around
For the second guy, because its your bestfriend i think you should tell him the truth that you aren't comfortable with it
yongharu21 #5
i dont like the sound of the second guy. the fact that he's getting too touchy out of nowhere feels like a warning sign. However, since he's a really good friend, I don't think you should be worried, cause it might just be him being really affectionate...
except for the grinding, that really gets me, like, i think he might like you... but the grinding makes it seem like he's attracted to you in a ual way. i could be wrong here, but that's the vibe i got... not exactly good, but who knows?
I honestly think you should give him a piece of your mind and tell him that you don't like the sudden skinship, and if he really is a good friend, he'll understand and he won't like feel you up and stuff. good luck!

btw how long have you known this guy? and if you need any more advice, you can always PM me :D
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