I Need Your Help

When school just started, I'm in college, I boy messaged me through this website that we use to turn in our homework for school. He asked me if I went to the same campus as him because if I did, he'd like to have a study session with me at school. I didn't know who he was, so I asked him, "I'm sorry, but who is this?" He replied back that we had the same online class, so I agreed to him because a little extra help won't hurt. If this guy is willing to be my study friend, then why not? Then, he tells me to message him and gives me his phone number, but then I tell him that I don't have a phone, so I can't text him. He suddenly stops replying to me. I was taken aback, but I just brushed off the feeling. Whatever. If he changed his mind, and don't want to study with me just because I don't have a phone then sure. I can't control him, but now that the semester is almost over, he messages me again. He asks me what day I am going to go in to take my final exam. I'm guessing he asked because he wants to go in on the day that I'm going. My question is: should I message him back and tell him the date? I don't see why I have to. He left me hanging for months, and suddenly he messages me again asking what day I am going to go in? Let me tell you guys, I have never seen this guy's face, but he's seen mine. I have a profile picture for the website that I turn in my homework, but this guy doesn't. If he really wanted to befriend me, he wouldn't have left me hanging right? He would've chosen another path to somehow communicate with me, so we could have our study session, but no. He ignored me for months, and now he wants to see me again? I really don't want to reply to him, but what do you guys think? Am I being too petty about this? Am I being way to butthurt? I just feel like I don't have the time for this kind of problem, and I don't want to be in this kind of problem either.

I've asked my friends as well. One of my girl friend thinks that I should message him back because why not? Another girl friend told me he sounds suspicious, so I shouldn't message him. I'm still waiting for my other girl friend to message me. What do you guys think?
_PGP615_ 6 years ago
Well if you really don't want to reply, then don't. It's your choice in the end and if you're not comfortable with doing it then it its ok not to message him.
watercherry 6 years ago
@chocolala Hmm. Unless I don't know how to read boys, I made sure I was straight forward. I told him I was willing to meet him. I told him the time and date, and he said he was free by the date and time I requested, so why would he back off when I said I don't have a phone? We could've just met on the time and date I requested, but he never showed up either. And why would he message me now? To make up for what happened? To try to get my attention again because I sounded like I was rejecting him? I guess I wouldn't know the answer unless I ask him.
chocolala 6 years ago
From what im reading, it sounds like the guy thinks he's being rejected (as in, he's thinking that you dont want to talk to him) when you said you don't have a phone. I know a lot of ppl who use that kind of excuse to tell ppl to back off. Like, in this day and age, who doesn't have a phone? Soo, he probably thought you were rejecting the study session with him and backed off.
watercherry 6 years ago
@wen-junhoe On my side or his side?
wen-junhoe 6 years ago
wow that's really shady?
watercherry 6 years ago
@sodapopgirl7890 I've already made up my mind, but thank you for replying! I definitely took this into consideration. ^^
sodapopgirl7890 6 years ago
I mean I have the same issue with this guy and I felt I was being petty too.. I suggest you guys meet at a public place first like a library or coffee shop to be safe. I don't recommend giving your personal phone number to strange people. Later they won't stop spamming you. First become friends, then you can choose to go further with it. Hope this helps :)
Mishtique 6 years ago
nah I don't think you should tell him, you don't get anything out of this and he, to be honest, sounds like an so,,
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@watercherry You're welcome!!! <3
watercherry 6 years ago
@xiuzabi That's exactly how I'm feeling! If he can do that to me now, I can only imagine the future. Thanks for your help. I really appreciate it! ^^
[deactivated] 6 years ago
I don't think you should waste your time on him. It's bull for him to think it's fine to leave you hanging for months and then act like he can come back as if nothing happened. I've been in a very similar situation (though I was very close to the guy). I don't think you'll regret stepping away.

Hope you get it figured out! <3
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