Things your mother doesn't let you do

1) Visiting Iran. According to her someone WILL murder me there.
2) Visiting Sweden. According to her someone WILL murder me there, as well.
3) Being friends with a boy...
4) ...who is a foreigner. (According to mom, yes, again I WILL get murdered mom please he's the kindest person on Earth)
5) Sharing your personal information online. Such as in what country you live in.
6) Getting a book that teaches me to play a guitar. I don't understand this one since I already have a guitar.
7) Absent from school. No matter if you're sick.
8) Being rude to the siblings. Such acts are telling them not to spit on you. My siblings are 13, 10 and 7.
9) Riding a bus to the near by town.
10) Riding to bus to the near by town with a friend.
11) Being friends with someone who's parents she doesn't know.
12) Talking to a boy (who is the same age as me)
13) Walking with a boy (who is the same age as me)
14) Study (apparently it disturbs someone)
15) Getting bad grades (God she's complicated)
16) Do laundry.
17) Cook or bake.
18) Going outside when it's A) Dark B) After 8 PM
19) Talking about China.
20) Listen music without headphones in my room, volume down and door closed. She does not like kpop.

How about your mothers?
MissLalaMoon
7 years ago
As long as it's not illegal, she doesn't care, lol. Well, she doesn't like tattoos and has told us to cover them if we do get on, I have no desire to get one, so that's good. I can do pretty much do whatever I want, but like, I rarely leave my house, so she has nothing to worry about.
Philosophies
7 years ago
It's changed a bit since I've gotten older, but a few things:

-Let me stay at home for too long. It sounds weird, but I'm something of a shut-in. Apparently, me staying at home makes me unable to help advance the human race.
-Swear
-Speak my opinion while around other people
-Let me have my door closed
-Let me have both earbuds in
-Get bad grades
-Speak my opinion at all
-Let me wear short dresses and skirts
-Let me not have a job. It's complicated.
-Let me stay in my room for extended periods of time, especially while on some sort of device
-Talk about my writing. My parents would force me to stop writing if they could, but they can't do that. But they do prevent me from speaking about it by giving me a cold shoulder and using "write your stories" as almost a bad word when explaining why I'm... um... such a failure, I guess.

My parents are kind of cold sometimes.
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@fanficliker I know pretty much because from my house there's 150 kilometers from my village to a Russian town. We're going to have so much fun, because since birth I've done some very Russian stuff tho I don't know anyone from there :'D Such as cheating in games. The game is much more exciting when everyone cheat and try not to get caught and everyone's also trying to win.
fanficliker
7 years ago
@Armyster Studying Russian language cool. I don't know much about Russian people
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@fanficliker I don't think they're coming :c

But I hope I get a roommate or two, I read that in the area where my college will be many foreign students want a roommate to live with them. I hope I'd get a Russian one since I'm starting to study Russian in August (thanks to Suga I always write "agust" and then wonder why it's underlined with red) so it would be nice to talk to someone in Russian + I heard Russian girls are very warm and welcoming n,n
[deactivated] 7 years ago
1. No drinking/smoke (this rule doesn't bother me bc I dislike alcohol/smoking. Still, she always talks about it bc my dad's a smoker/reformed alcoholic and she thinks my brother and I are gonna follow his footsteps. The worst part about it is that she preaches against smoking but she smoked while she was pregnant with me)
2. Being gay
3. Going to a boy's house
4. Going to friends' houses
5. Drink coffee
6. Moving away to a faraway city (she's got some separation anxiety/empty nest syndrome bull going on and it freaks her out if I mention anything about moving out even though I'm gonna be at home for two more years until I finish uni)
7. going to concerts (I mean, she lets me go but she makes a big ing deal about "safety")
8. Getting permanent tattoos
fanficliker
7 years ago
@Armyster 600 kms away? I hope you have a great college life. I got an option to choose a far off college, but I didn’t because I was too scared to live by myself then. But many of my friends did and they said it is something everyone must experience atleast once.
Oh I also hope you enjoy Documentary about penguins with your friends
MissMinew
7 years ago
@Armyster I see. ^-^
SeonNyeo26
7 years ago
7,11,12,13,15, 18
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@MissMinew Here both booze and smoking is banned from under 18-year-olds. They just have friends.
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@fanficliker Omg. Thank God when I turn 18 I'll live under her roof only for 6 more months because MY COLLEGE IS 600 KILOMETERS AWAY now I only have to get in and then it's gonna be a party. With all my 3 friends. We probably watch a documentary about penguins.
MissMinew
7 years ago
@Armyster Ah, well, I don't think people start that young here anymore because the government is trying extremely hard to stop people from starting young. People usually start drinking around confirmation age and that's 13. ^^ Idk about smoking here, haha. Smokers are almost not allowed anywhere so starting is pretty stupid and is only gonna cost you time and trouble. You also can't buy your smokes until you're 18 anyway so. I think people are 16 when they start that , but idk - I don't have statistics. ^^

Poor you. ;;
fanficliker
7 years ago
Oh, that is really long. My mom doesn’t let me -
1. Stay late at nights.( like after 10pm or 10:30). Well both of my parents don't allow that.
2. Eat breakfast without bathing ( like even on holidays and I am extremely hungry)
3. Will check my contact list. (Even though they are detailed like a person name and how I know them I.e. School or college and sometimes I add surnames too so that I don't get confused) and will ask about them.
4. Whenever a person calls, she continously asks who has called until I tell her.
5. Doesn’t let me sleep after 8am on holidays.
6. Doesn’t let me go to movies with my friends - I have only went to 2 movies with my friends.
7. Trips with friends, only allows when a teacher accompanies.
8. Spend more time on Internet.

There are more, I couldn't remember at the moment.
She gets too much over protective even though I am of a legal age.
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@PastelWolf88 Oh, my mom doesn't ban it, since being a gay is NOT an option. But I'm pretty sure she thinks only boys can like boys.
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@MissMinew We share the culture, my dear. Tho here it's very common to start drinking in age of 12. They usually start smoking when they're like 10.

I'm not allowed to even sleepover :c
[deactivated] 7 years ago
the enter man

1) be gay
2) smoke
3) drink alcohol
4) be trans
5) question her beliefs
6) send hearts to girls
7) hug girls
8) support gay ppl
9) think about bible in a different way than her
10) Jesus had two dads
11) spend the rest of my life in my room
12) spend the rest of my life on a computer
13) marry my laptop
14) her name's Reiko
15) she's a girl so it's a sin.

basically I'm gay and my mom doesn't like it lol
MissMinew
7 years ago
@Armyster Haha, oh, my parents never forbade alcohol. It was more like "don't drive drunk and do you know where you're sleeping if you're not coming home?" But that is really to be expected in a culture where people start drinking at age 13/14. ^.^
[deleted]
[deactivated] 7 years ago
1) be gay
2) like girls
3) send hearts to girls
4) hug girls
5) kiss girls
6) stare at s
7) like p***y
8) be trans
9) be atheist
10) say that bible CAN be thought in a different way than real conservative
11) question what she says
12) disrespekt
13) support gay ppl
14) you're going to hell if you're gay
15) jesus had two dads
16) say that muslims are peaceful
17) write
18) spend the rest of my life in my room
19) and code
20) because it's a waste of time apparently
21) do bad at school
22) yell at her:D
23) have internet friends
24) have friends who are not christians
25) like Luhan (this one hurts the most personally)
26) like EXO
27) kpop in general

Okay so in a nutshell I'm gay and she doesn't like it
-hyphen-
7 years ago
@MissMinew Oh, my mom is also so against smoking, drinking alcohol and doing drugs (which I get why she says no) but when I go somewhere with a friend I've known soon for 11 years (and my mom is friends with her mom) she's always like "and do not smoke and if you drink any alcohol you'll be grounded forever are you sure you'll be good?" I have drank alcohol once. It was in church. This thing known as the Holy Communion. And she was there, too. I've never smoked.

Funny fact, that friend of mine is allergic to tobacco and the most of alcoholic drinks :'DDD
MissMinew
7 years ago
Wow, that sounds exhausting. My list would be pretty empty..
Things my mom don't allow me:
- Being a criminal

And I mean, she can't really stop me if I really wanted to, so there's that. I guess that's it when you're an adult.

Oh wait, she doesn't allow me to smoke inside her house which is fine because I don't smoke. I don't mind that rule. XD