Ten years ago after her mother left, Wendy’s father sat down his two children in the kitchen table and explained to them that their mother wasn’t going to come back. Eight year old Wendy had asked her father how she could choose a man over her own kids. “Love makes you selfish. It gnaws away at your heart until you want nothing left except to have your love received and reciprocated. Even if it means hurting those around you.” He'd said. Her father was wrong, love doesn’t make