Buffy found it hard enough to have a relationship with Sangbae, who only wanted him for his body. But when everyone, including Moos himself, is against said relationship before it's even had a chance to properly begin, it gets a little more difficult. 

Buffy had lived a comfortable life for the past 19 years. He was recieving the free, extensive education and health care every Qir  was entitled to. He'd planned to marry a good homemaker, have a few kids then live out their elderly years travelling the permitted countries the 'Qir elderly life plan' entailed. What he hadn't banked on was falling for the unruly, short, Dean boy Moos. But then again, which Qir has ever planned to be enamoured to, what was considered, a 2nd rate citizen? Probably very few.