Can someone answer me?

Description

1x1rper and their ghosting.

Foreword

I don't mean to everyone but everyone I met for 1x1 keep ghosting on me just after the intro. Just intro, no plot, no discussion, nothing and they are gone. Not just once, this is fifth time already. Come on I am not the one posting 1x1rp ads and saying need dom bla bla, want friend bla bla. Did I do something wrong or my intro were so boring that you guys just gone with the wind just after the intro? I just said 'Hey! How are you?' 'What genre do you prefer?'. Was that wrong?

It's just funny when they are the one saying 'ghosting is not cool.' 'please no ghosting' and they are the ONE DID the GHOSTING.

People have life. Yeah I am telling you, they disappeared with no explain, no words, nothing till this moment. They posted ads and I approached them. We added each other on line, kkt. I gave my intro and they gone.

Am I that bad at introduction? Can anyone answer me?

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Kaoru013 #1 Oct 15, 2019 17:53:11

I get ghosted a lot tbvh. Its just full of crap this days. People cant be botheed to even drop a single note to remind us theyd be busy or smth. I get inversted into discussing the plot and when its time to start they disappear, like, wth.

BiteMeDaddy #2 Oct 12, 2019 04:46:43

These people are that's why. It's really not hard to just say "I change my mind." I always tell anyone I don't want to rp with that I don't want to do it anymore and most are really understanding. It would be nice if people were as considerate as well.

lunarskipper #3 Oct 11, 2019 19:16:47

I think it's just something we all have to navigate through when writing one on one. When someone ghosts I let it be because there are other people around and calling them out only makes them ghost harder. If I really wanted to talk to them after about five days i'll message them something small and non expecting like "hey"
I really don't think it has anything to do with you or anyone really

Sometimes I ghost people when they're too overbearing without communicating enough
Like i've had people tell me who i'm going to roleplay when i didn't even suggest that as a face claim
Or if the plot/faceclaims/kinks don't line up with what i want and so after the plotting i'll lose interest and leave even though i've never indicated that the plot looks boring.
But i've been ghosted plenty of times too.
Sometimes talking casually first as friends without plotting helps, sometimes it bores people.
But some people will click and that will make all of the ghosting worth it.

CLUnnie #4 Oct 11, 2019 18:55:53

I feel this on a personal leve ? sorry to hear that love.