A stupid fight

Me and this girl are really good friends, and recently we have this fall service coming up so I asked her if she's going. She went on a long paragraph(not really) about how she needs to ask her parents to call of a day of work for it and then I remember that last year she called of more than 3 times(bc she rembers to have called off less) she got mad at how I remember it wrong. Then she went on about how important her history of working at cubs is and how future jobs will call this job and ask about how she is during her time working there. I basically said shes overthinking this and she should relax a little. Oh and just to let you guys know we are in highschool.
So long story short she's mad and thinks that I disrespected her and her parents and how their decisions are made by saying she was over thinking things.
And honestly if I were to appologize I won't be able to make it sound like I actually mean it and I don't want that. she's been ignoring me for 2 straight days and i am so glade it's the weekend but i don't know what to do for Monday...
Do you guys think It's insensitive for thinking like this?
jjongshoe
5 years ago
Okay so, as someone who has been working for more than 3 years, it really depends on where you're working.
Chances of the new interviewer calling the old job are actually higher than you think.

Since you guys are in high school, I think she is overthinking just a little bit.
Jobs when you're in HS aren't as stressful as later on in life.
Basically, now is the time to relax and enjoy, but I guarantee that it's not going to be easy later.

If you want to keep your friend, then you'd have to apologize though