Coming out

 

Wow, guess who just came out to her parents as bi?
Yay me *insert sarcasm at its worst*
And guess what the answer was? 
There is no such thing as biuality, you can't be attracted to both genders. It's only cause you're unsure.
Or you don't to admit that you're straight or gay, you're scared. It's only a trend. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet.
You lacked a strong male idol (or whatsoever), but don't worry you'll find the right man and one day you'll realize that it was only a phase.

Phase bull yeah?! I spent about 4 and a half years struggling with my uality, questioning it - I will know what I am! Or am I wrong?
This whole talk was so ing annoying and I always thought they'd accept me as bi, but no, it doesn't exist.
And hey, thank you for telling (or trying to tell) me who I am and who I will be and who I'm supposed to be. 
And no I'm not biual/lesbian/'confused' because I lacked a parental male figure and ended up admiring my mother too much
(Which is why I think a woman is the ideal person - and I don't like men)
And they've also made it quite clear that I should end up coming home with a man. Because, lesbians are ugly and they are always depressed.
Yeah, thanks for the moral boost.
Oh, and since we're at it - don't come home with anyone ugly - yeah thanks, totally encouraging 
And now they think they should be worried about me and I feel like crying all over again. Oh who am I kidding, I am

I don't even see the point of this anymore. I'm so ing done with everything.
And yes I know I have to give them time, I will - but they had already three years and I'm  just so ing angry and disappointed.
Now excuse my senseless rant, while I'll go kill my ears, listening to rock music and  feel miserable.

 

 



 

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piinkmochii
#1
.. :L Wow.. that totally . I'm sorry for what happened. Truth is, I'm bi too. Though I never had the guts to tell them, but someday.. someday when I find someone I love to death, I will. But, until then.. I'm keeping quiet. How are you holding up? (I know I'm months late, but I hope you're getting better.)
bearseulgod
#2
*huuuuugs*
Kaitaro_ozu
#3
My sister knew I had a gf but still believes I could change and mom never argued my fashion even when sometimes I look like a dude but in all that comfort I guess I won't be able to come out to them at all.

I am so proud of you for this hell bravery brother. And I hope that heavy feel would subside bit by bit and I know how you feel. Totally with you in everything you said. Guess we still have to chase hope even if it is a 'ghost'..
Autumn_leaves
#4
Lesbians are ugly? Then what? It's like saying straight people are perfect good souls that will treat you well (oh yeah they are sooo much hotter *rolls eyes*) Everyone should get the concept that we are all the same and that is that we are all humans. Period. Humans have the right to identify themselves, not by law, not by religion, and not by family and friends. Remember that YOU are the one that fully controls your identity.

My parents are not very supportive about my ual identity. It's like they will still be horrified and worried about me about the news of my ual identity rather than saying like I dropped out of school and joined a bloody gang.

It is sad that some people can never change. But time always changes something. Even hope. Time can either build or wear out hope.

Sorry about this long post. I'm really passionate about these kinds of things. If you need to talk to get it all out you know, you can talk to me alright? :) Be safe and well!
Soosicsari
#5
I feel ya :/ hopefully they'll come around as all. For now stay strong :) hwaiting~!
ToshiFumi
#6
Relax,
Maybe they just dont understand, you know, they never experience this kind of stuff before.
Dont you think they need time to understand, and you should tell them again some other times?
Lesbians are not ugly and always depressed, prove it to your parents.

My mom was like that too, she thought lesbian is just a depressed monster who'll every girl in this world.