Someone help... I don't know what to do :(

Sorry to be bothering you people, but I don't know what to do :(

I broke up with my boyfriend (2 year relationship) four days ago, because he had sent me a message saying that he didn't love me that much and that he was only with me because he didn't want me to suffer. Plus when I would try to call him, because I wanted him to explain himself he would turn off the calls on me several times and he didn't contact me once in the weekend. :'(

But even though we decided to just stay as friends I still really love him, worry and care for him. I hate the fact that I still love him as much as the day that I first met him. Yesterday he had told me, he missed me. I really want to get back together with him, but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't. Maybe it's because I feel that if I get back together with him, I won't be able to change the fact that he doesn't love me that much...

What should I do? Please someone help me...

 

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LuckyGirl97 #1
Just Move On^^
Renxnuest #2
That's really awful :/ I was reading the comments plus what you had said to one of the commenters and honestly thinking if that is the case, he seems like an , I wouldn't really recommend you going back to him... I know your probably thinking that I'm being harsh, and I'm sorry about that.
Maybe you breaking up with him was for the best. If you feel sad just go watch a comedy or hang with your friends, don't go mopping around just because of this one guy ^^ There's a million guys in the world, he's not the only one :) And who knows, maybe the right person for you might be closer than what you think :)
I'm sure you'd be happier with someone that loves you just as much as you love him then being with a person that doesn't share the same amount of feelings as you ^-^
nutellaluhan #3
Aww ;~; although you have all reasons in the world to be upset, don't be. And as unpleasant as it sounds, give him another chance or both of you distance each other for a while alright? I hope this advice helps c: To feel bette go watch something funny or some horror movie or rereade doc or browse through a funny tumblr. Don't let this put you down too much!! Ilysm ~!!
secretninja09 #4
Hmm I think maybe you should distance yourself for awhile and give yourself some time to really think about your relationship that you had with him. Maybeit was for the best. But honestly the ball is in your court.
Blu3Wind #5
I think that as long as he is willing to put some effort into the relationship, he is able to rekindle his feelings. Falling in love is not a decision we can make, but 'staying' in love is a conscious decision that needs effort from both parties.
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