To all EXO-fans.

/!\ Beware : language + Unpopular opinion.

Now Lu Han fans and SM-stans are seriously pissing me off. 
It's been proven that that Wu Yi Fan a.k.a Kris and Lu Han have filled the lawsuit against SMent for the same ing reasons !
Yet the blind fans don't understand how biased their eyes are and keep up with the "Lu Han is more professional" any synonym to my bias is better than your bias" they goes like " I support both but Lu Han is better" when they were the first to on Kris. I-fans and C-fans were disgusting, not as much as Korean fans but you gotta admit : 

1- Lu Han's case looks better because there wasn't a concert one week after. Guess how hard it is to reschedule a concert ? Another proof that SM doesn't care how hard it will be to change some details that will exhaust the members since it will bring money and make the public side with them against Kris...

2- Lu Han cleaned his schedules before leaving ? Just because he was reported sick doesn't mean it was easy for the other members. THEY STILL HAD TO REDO EVERYTHING. Plus they're like " he fainted because he wanted to fill his schedule" And how would you know ?
Case one : Lu Han learned after Kris' hate that he had no choice but perform to death so he would have it easier than Kris. 
Case two : The concert was in Beijing, Lu Han is the most popular of EXO-M, all of his fans who are a lot wouldn't go if they knew he wouldn't be there => SM would lose lots of money so they forced him.

3- "The members support Lu Han but not Kris so that proves he didn't do anything wrong unlike Kris".
FALSE F-CKING FALSE. Yes Lay said "good luck" and sh!t and maybe Tao but what does that proves ?
Case 1 : They hated Kris from the start and they're awful human beings so they didn't care / were happy about how much prejudice their comments would bring to Kris.
Case 2 : We all know that SM interviews' answers come from SM's PR team : so were the so-called "irresponsible" comments thrown at Kris by the EXO11 members. They can't do anything but act accordingly to what SM tells them ( reason why they faint and go on stage even if they don't feel well.) And like Kim Gu Ra said to the Super Junior members recently, they can't do anything as a human in front of an agency like SMent ( even Siwon x Suho) Look at J.Y.J.
Case 3 : We know that ONLY Yixing (and Tao) showed their support to Lu Han. What if the Korean members didn't agree with Lu Han ? They're Chinese and saw the Backlash Kris got,  what if they didn't want that to happen to their other Chinese friend and gotten more mature in the expression of their sadness ? 
Anyway 1 comment that's not even a 2 lines comment makes you go all like " Lu Han is right" etc. So the other members aren't important ? Eg : Sehun showed explicitly his support to EXO as 11 members when Kris Left, now it's "EXO let's love" and not "EXO10" what do you think of that ? Shouldn't you say he was betrayed by Lu Han because he obviously wanted to stay as 11 members ? ( I'm not even stating the fact that it showed he didn't care less about Kris, even when Kyungsoo said that it was the real start of EXO none of you thought that maybe they didn't really like Kris.)

You all get up on your high horses saying that they were betrayed etc, but could you even call them "close" in the first place ? I don't know for your personal friendships but in mines even if we weren't that close we would never say about the other even if we hated each other's guts. We'd know about another's struggle before they open their mouth. We didn't need to be together 10 years to be able to do that. Okay everyone's different I don't expect them to be as close as the camera shows but aren't you surprised ? They trained years together spent 2 years together on stage, rumor has it Kris tried to escape before and they're all like "we didn't know". Because Sehun put a question mark it means all the group didn't know about Kris wanting out ? What about Chan Yeol's "punish the evil " ? OH BUT WAIT ! Don't it look similar to what SM said ? SM said they didn't know that Lu Han wanted to get out when rumor has been circulating for a month ? Then EXO's case is worst than SM's :o They lived with the guy and said they didn't know. Just remember : " because you said it, doesn't mean that you meant it."

4- Lu Han's friend said that he wanted to be closer to his family etc.
YES ! It's true, but show me that friend please ? Do not instantly believe what you read on the internet. Anyway I do believe it because I know Chinese people (that grew up in China) give family the 1st place in their lives. So you're saying Lu Han wanted to be with his parents and not Kris ?
THINK deeper : Kris' parents are separated we don't know why, but his mother raised him alone ( there are proofs) I never heard he had any sibling and don't think so because at the Time Lu Han and Kris were born the single-child law was still applied. SO in your eyes, not the fan's eyes but the person eyes, what's worst ? A single child leaving his mother who has been abandoned by his father (I don't have proofs for the abandoning part but I believe it's the case since they flew the country etc.) alone in the other side of the planet or a single child leaving his parent's house for a neighborhood country ? Knowing that Lu Han left with dreams being a K-Pop artist in Korea (Cf. DBSK concert photos) And Kris just wanted to test his luck.

They're both in the right, wanting to be near your parents before they die shouldn't be a sin. You can't compare because things don't have the same value for everyone.

5- This pisses me off the most : Lu Han was visibly sick and Kris wasn't that sick.
MOTHERHELLA FALSE : Just because Lu Han fainted etc and Kris didn't, doesn't mean he was getting it easier than Lu Han : remember ? He was the first to leave, maybe Lu Han's case wasn't that bad so he could wait. Or Maybe he's stronger than Kris. I just want to make you all remember that we may experience the same things but we ALL have our limits. I heard Kris was getting it as bad, I saw pictures etc but yeah WE DON'T KNOW. I don't think they would gain anything by faking it. Plus we don't want to be seen in some states. I personally hate to make a show of myself so I never cry in public. This doesn't mean Lu Han wanted to make a show of himself.
Plus when you have enough you can't help but care for yourself.

Also stop saying that Lu Han didn't get it easier because of Kris : HE DID. Okay he maybe spoke to Lay/Tao but hey ! If he was the first to leave we all know the fandom would hate him and say that he didn't want OT12 to exist. And I know that Kris wouldn't call him irresponsible if he knew how unfair SM was and planed to sue it 5 months after, a lawsuit is something you prepare, so I get mixed feelings toward Lu Han. Plus he knew what he would have to go through seeing how Kris' thing turned out.

I just want to add that Lu Han asked for 50.000 USD. From SMent. I don't know if Kris asked more or less but Lu Han also said that there was also a payment problem.
Now all of you EXO-Ls gotta sit the down and see the truth from your non-fan's eyes.
This fandom is thoroughly ed that I don't know where to start.
"NO bias is better than ANY other bias" Is something you need to accept. You're not smarter than anyone so stop thinking there's a right member to like better than the others cause there's not. One might fit your tastes better but he's no better than any other one in general ( not talking about talents etc).
Once you learn this fact you can enjoy having 12 boys as your bias and love all of them equally or just love ALL of them and wake up the human part in yourself by caring genuinely for all of them (= stop thinking " as long as it's not my bias")
There's no such thing as loyalty as long as you support the group. Sehun couldn't careless if you started preferring Baekhyun over him as long as you still support EXO.
NO fandom is better than the other. NO. NO. NO. No matter how you look at it no. Simply no because we're one big fandom : K-POP fans. Other world's fandoms hate us so do not start between each other. Once you take this advice you can start appreciating any K-POP variety show, read any fanfictions because YES YOU LOVE ALL K-POP CELEBS. 
STOP HATING AND START LOVING. That's how I can be a Baby, an Army, an EXO-fan (not exo-L), an Inspirit, an IGOT7, a VIP etc etc (all kpop fandoms lmao, good music isn't limited to one group or agency.)
There are no true fans and fake fans. It shouldn't exist. "fans" that say they love one group to bring hate on them are simply antis/haters. EVERYONE has different standards for a "good fan" or a "bad fan" but there's no role model so don't expect everyone to be a copy of what you consider a "good fan". We really shouldn't hate, how do you expect your favorite artist to succeed with a fandom that hates more than love ? I thought that being a fan was beautiful : loving someone you don't know (not judging them)    because you know their music is making people happy etc. Now I'm just sad and ashamed to call myself a fan.

Kris' fans DO NOT ask you to consider him as a Jesus, but the biggest thing you could do is thank him or just be respectful because he saved Lu Han from the first blow. I don't care as long as you stop saying that Lu Han is a god that did everything alone. I'm a Kris fan and also a Lu Han fan. I DO love all of them equally, my bias from EXO was Xiumin because even if I didn't want to start loving Exo he made me curious. I say "was" because I like all of them now and I think they're all essential in the group (OT12 forever lmao). 
I've detached myself from EXO because I feel bad to see them act as if Kris didn't exist as if they really hated him, plus after Baekhyun's thing I realized how attached I was and how unhealthy it was. So I still support them, listen to growl, watch EXO's Showtime, write/read fanfictions etc but I won't follow them as hard as before.
This was my rant, my train of thoughts. It's an opinion from a perspective that may differ from yours. Some elements may be wrong and I'd be grateful if you tried correcting me politely, since I'm not closed to see things in a different light. Because in the end we all want to know a thing : the truth. ( It can't be seen through biased eyes.)
(It was some long rant (laugh) If you read 'til the end you deserve a big clap and thank you ^^)

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masayu-san
#1
this fandom is ed up. no offense to everybody but it really is. and guess what? we can't blame anyone sincce we don't have clear eyes about everything. it's seriously appaling to see one china member left and another tries to leave (don't start chewing my head). everyone probably could say like "i support krease/luhan/motherin alibaba" or "i hate them how can they do this to me?" but all i could say was : holy. ing. cow.
because i couldnt even know how to react to all of these woombledoondle. like, HOW CAN THIS BE? exo is just like three years and aome of them separate themselves from the exo. it's like???? WHAT?
one question : "TO WHOM WE SHOULD DUMP ALL THE BLASPHEMIES AND BLAMES ON?"

sorry it was just.... pent up frustration i got these months. thank you for reading my nonsensical babble.
LuluLay
#2
I read it all ! Omg luhan wants 50.000$ from sm ?! I didn't know this...i thought he has to pay back since he wants to end the contract, and sm invested alot in him. Kris right or wrong - luhan right or wrong, both of them have the right to leave exo (health comes first) ! I wish we could know the truth what's really going on between sm and exo...yeah ofc we don't know if they're actually that close...i know this is a rumour but i read somewhere that kris had problems with exo from the beginning and that they're not rly close, or that the exo-m members don't like kai - what i want to say is we will never know the truth about them, i am sure their acting skills are amazing as soon as they stand in front of the camera. However what REALLY makes me sad is to see the group that gained popularity the FASTEST, falling apart the FASTEST ... i wish those happy moments OT12 (well at least for us fans) would last longer...