I don't really use this space for my inner thoughts, even when lately I used it for the Taeny thoughts revolving the tag at tumblr and the dating scandals.

It just that...I really get suprised at how, WE as humans, can see the degrees on things...everything has to be black or white, they can't be grey areas or beige areas.

You either 100% are in or 100% out, like...is just insane, I say it before it happens in all fandoms but it just really suprises me the level it had reached on the kpop one.

I recently was minding my own thing on tumblr, looking at Amber Liu's tag, I have like a crush on her and I'm not afraid to say it, (please do not come at me saying that is probably because she looks like a guy or that she is boyish because trust me is not really that), and I saw that she had a new tattoo and I thought "Cool", I search for the picture of this new tattoo and I thought "That's cute"

Then I went to other tags, including the taeny one because when things chill out I start tracking the tag again, and I start noticing some stuff quite similar to what I've already talk about being a FAN, and the thin line between FAN and FANATIC, but I seriously think as a fandom we need to chill out, like RELAX.

I don't mean to offend people, I don't want to point out things that really childish but...guys, we don't OWN THEM, they have their right to do whatever they want, as long it doesn't hurt others, like I know some people are really sensitive with the idea of tattoos but they are just a way to express it doesn't defines the person, you know what also doesn't define the person?

HOW THEY LOOK! AND HOW YOU DEFINE THE WAY THEY LOOK

I've seen so many people claiming to be turn gay/lesbian for an idol, like...is just too much sometimes, as someone who struggled with coming out of the closet I kind of feel bad when I see those things, I don't know if the majority of the people who post it is actually gay/lesbian or a part of the lgbtqia+ community but like is 2014 kids, you can say someone is attractive and it doesn't mean your gay/straight/etc.

I mean, I reblog pictures of Taeyang shirtless and that doesn't make me less gay of what I am, Taeyang is cute, he has a nice body and I like him because of his voice and because he doesn't care about things like his hair, many times I've thought he needs to stop with the braid things but hey is his hair and if he is okay with it, he can go with it.

The same happens with Amber Liu, she has said over and over again, she is a girl, she is comfortable in less girly clothes but that doesn't mean she is gay, as far as I know Amber Liu is just Amber Liu, my thoughts about certain idols being something else than straigth are base on certain things I see on the way they act (but also remember that being feminin doesn't mean gay and is equal to being boyish), when you actually realize there are girls who are "girly" that are gay and that there are guys who play sports and that are muscular being gay you realize that the stereotypes are not allways on the spot.

Also...if you don't like people shipping something, or you think they need to "do something with their lives" what are you doing on the tag of the ship?

Why people who hates things are on the videos of youtube, on the tags on tumblr, IG, facebook!? Come on, you are just being a troll, yes I believe that some fans (locksmiths) had take things to certain levels that are NOT OKAY but not all the fans are the same.

Regarding other stuff I see, people need to relax in the news of Tiffay opening an IG account, let's try to be mature, let's be kind.

I'll leave this here, maybe someone will read it, maybe no one would but at least I had take some thoughts off my mind, I hope you can get what I'm trying to say, I do not mean to offend anyone, If I did I'm sorry.

take in mind this quote I saw on tumblr once: "DON´T JUDGE SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE THEY SIN DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU"