Okay, so I've never made a blog before, and this isn't a light one for my first time, but this wasn't an issue I could let go.

I sure most of you have already heard about Kim Hyun Joong being accused of 'assault', but let's not call it assault; let's call it what it is - domestic abuse. His ex-girlfriend has filed chargers against him for repeated beatings. And these aren't just a few smacks; they are broken ribs and trips to hospital attacks.

First of all, I'm wondering why I have seen NO other blogs about this? That Kemy girl disses Bom and there are a million and one blogs hating on her. Kim Hyun Joong repeatedly beats his girlfriend and nothing? Seriously? But what's worse is the people defending him; whether you're female or male, it's sickening that you would actually defend abuse. You're saying that it's fine and dandy to hurt the person you're supposed to love and care for.

Now, don't jump on me saying I'm just hating on poor Hyun Joong oppa and that crazy is just lying. She isn't lying. She has medical proof. Hyung Joong admitted to beating her, though he of course says it was only once and worded to sound like nothing but a heat of the moment scuffle. Hyun Joong/KeyEast are saying she got her broken ribs while they were 'playing around'. You do not get broken bones from playing. It takes a lot of force to snap bone - it could only have been deliberate. FOR THE SAKE OF EVERY YOUNG GIRL DO NOT DEFEND HIM! Do young and impressionable girls need to see older girls/women defending someone who beat their girlfriend? What message is that giving them? "It's fine to for a guy to beat his girlfriend so long as he's handsome and successful"? Any person with even the slightest bit of respect and sympathy for abuse victims would not defend anybody - man or woman - who abuses their partner. Being famous does not give him a free pass to violence. If you're defending him, and still calling yourself his fan, then you really need to take a serious look at yourself. Imagine if that was you, or your sister or brother or mother or father or best friend being abused, would you defend the abuser then?

I grew up around domestic abuse, so I know all the excuses people come up with. And you can absolutely grantee that he beat her more than once. Abusers don't just hit someone once, it's a pattern of violence.

What surprises me is that KeyEast didn't even bother coming up with a good lie, they pretty much just shrugged it off and said, "Oh well, happens." They could have said a million things; she's a crazy fan wanting his attention, she's blackmailing him, etc. It seems they don't give a flying  that Hyun Joong was beating his girlfriend, and well, why would they? He's making them money. He can break her bones as many times as he likes so long as they keep getting money.

Now, I'm not saying he was always this way, maybe he became violent only recently, but that doesn't matter. He could have been the greatest person on Earth a year ago, but he's certainly not now. The fact that he has been violent is what matters. If he's violent in that relationship, what's to stop him being the same in future ones? Think about it like a level headed person who rationally knows that abuse is wrong, don't think of it like a fan of his.

It's sickening that celebrities always get away with this stuff, just look at Chris Brown, Charlie Sheen, Mel Gibson, Emma Roberts. Like I said, fame isn't a free pass to do whatever the hell you like. I'm glad I never took much interest in Hyun Joong as he's clearly a scumbag. Please, for the sake of everyone currently in abusive relationships, and the people who'll fall into one in the future, do not defend abuse!