For a start, NEVER feel emotionally attached with any idols you stan.

Support them for their music, personality, or etc but not to have the mindset to really fall in love with them.

Understand that they will find the man/woman they love in future but it's going to be less likely us, fans.

I have never thought that one day, an idol will fall in love with me, like really NEVER.

That's because I know my own limits.

Don't even trust when they say that their ideal types are us, fans because they don't really feel this way.

When a celebrity couple is revealed, I guess all we can do is to accept it.

Not asking you to support but just accept, you can take some time to just calm yourself down but don't hurt anyone.

I am personally a great fan of EXO's Kris and B2ST's Dong Woon, if both of them found their happiness, I am not going to be hating or show any displeasure.

I mean, I love them for their personality and for who they are so if they found someone they love, I will be happy too :)

I hope fans can be more logical and just don't put all your feelings onto someone whom he/she doesn't know you in real life.

As in, know where we stand and be realistic.

One day, we might just stop supporting them.

One day, we will find who we love and he/she loves us too.

One day, we will get married and have children.

Then we can tell our kids, "You know dad/mum used to support this group back then. They are a group of talented people and dad/mum loves them a lot for who they are and I am glad that they are happy because I believe everyone deserves to have their very own happiness."

Because I believe everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy.

blog post by miniseominah