I just want to say something, because i came across so many post from similar people retweet on my twitter saying those delulu fans stop and get over it. 
I need to get this off my chest... kindly leave if you doesn't agree. I don't want comments asking to me reflect on myself of what am i writting because it's ridiculous to you. It's my own way of thinking. 

Starting off.. 

To be honest, there is no wrong to fall in love and there is nothing wrong for fans to felt like that. 
Yup, they might not know each other thoughts. They see them as a whole whom they called "my fans". 
To those fans, they don't just see them as just a group but deeper in to each and every of them whom they called "bias".
That bias able to take their hearts and minds away from the fans unknowningly and also not like their bias actually know or thinking why does this matter hurting them so hard, it's their personal life in the first place. Fans should have a limit to things they are doing. But does these fans actually treat them like just a idol that's all? They treated them like friend because they want to know them more. There are no fans in their right mind want to hurt their idols and they want them not treat them as fans but friends. 

Those biases has become like their real life crush, like what you do to your crush. You devoted your love, your time, your money (buying small gifts or do the small changes on you to get them notice you are there) for him or her. When the person you crush on for quite a time had allow only one person just one person to claim his or her heart. It's really painful for the one side crush person. In another words, what i want to say.. Allow them to have time to heal from the new fresh made scar, it's just temporary like how they stop their actions but still cared for them deep inside somewhere .. looking this way it's exactly the same. It's not because you are not hurt from the news and doesn't mean others are not too. 

Give them some time to heal themselves some take shorter peroids some take longer peroids. 
Some are over it just by a tub of ice cream, some need to close themselves up to think straight again. 
Their words might seems to be bashing to most but to some whom felt the same situation will know that person just couldn't accept it at that moment.
 

It doesn't matter if it is your real life crush or an idol crush, it's the same! 
So people whom keep calling those to wake up, you need to wake up! 
Those fans whom bashed know their bashing hurt their idols too, they just want to know how hurt are they. 

Just because things isn't the same for you yet, you can say whatever you want to them. 
Because when the times come for you, it's will be like the table turn and you will felt karma fall on you. 
But ... It's still not too late to support them with your care. 

I hope you girls (those i knew) know what are you typing.
 

Peace. 
Puffym