Fake Shippers

So... I'm back? Well if anyone here remember my existence...

But yeah, I have some problem with my friends or more on virtual friends whom I thought ship EunHae the way I do. They do say they ship EunHae but if some girl will pop out of the picture, they'll ship it with one of them. I mean, how could you ship two ships? I just really feel bad... betrayed I guess and I don't know if I would want to talk to them.

I shared my thoughts with them about EunHae, everything about them, but there I found out that they don't really believe they're real. That they see EunHae as a show-off coulpe, that everything is just fan service.

I don't even know why they feel that girlxboy couple are more real than boyxboy. I mean what makes them more real then EunHae? Is it because they're capable of bearing a child? Is it because one must dominant and submissive? Is it because a girl and a boy can't be just friends and EunHae can't be more than that?

I don't hate them, but I hate trusting them. I hate it when they think of EunHae like that. That they only support them, called themselves as shipper because Donghae being with Hyukjae won't make them jealous because they're girls, and they're more than Hyukjae... because Donghae don't love Hyukjae because he can't be gay, he can't be, and for that Donghae like girls which they're... what a complete nonsense.

In reality they only ship EunHae with themselves, and they only ship DaraHae, YoonHae, HaeSica to show that they're not hurt, that they support those girls when actually they're cursing at her back... why can't they be just real and say they're hurt? Why do you have to use someone to cover your tears? Selfish.

Maybe it's only happening to me... maybe I'm just over reacting... but I don't want to trust them anymore. How could I anyway? When they can't even be true to themselves.

 

I don't even know what I am writing anymore, but all I am wishing is to find someone who ship EunHae the way I do <3

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JunoSJ #1
I too ship Eunhae a lot but I hate girls paring with them really!!Eunhae will exist till the world ends!
Fishylover #2
Likept i cannot ing see my babies with a ing girl and like that ...and ship that ... that....EUNHAE IS EUNHAE AND THAT'S HOW ITS STAYING
Fishylover #3
I hate that too bro honest
Eunhaemode
#4
Hmmmm... All I know is that... EUNHAE is LOVE... EUNHAE is REAL... <3
voiladeux
#5
I really hate people who really not being loyal shipper..eunhae is real though x)
so what if they being gay..
I really dont like hae or hyuk with others girls -.-
evangeline101 #6
I feel you girl I love eunhae to the depths of the ocean and all that cheesy things /pukes rainbows/
haleeann #7
I ship them, and I love them, but if they actually aren't gay and it is just fanservice then I can still ship them, and love them while they're with other people. I don't think you have to be 100% 'they're real' to ship someone. Shipping isn't just thinking they're cute together, it's believing they fit well with their behavior and actions and I personally think Eunhae has it, but there's always the chance that it is just a ship and not real.
AyaniELF
#8
It IS annoying. I thought one "shipped" two people because they actually thought they were real, or that they are close enough to be a couple. Not just because they look cute together or are friends.

It's stupid that whole boy-girl can only be friends. So what, Donghae isn't allowed to be gay? What he CAN'T be gay because of his culture? Or is it because he's too masculine and to them, homouals are supposed to wear tight short shorts and prance around.

It's like every girl that ever talks to Eunhae are considered to be dating them. I don't use Hyukjae as a clutch to say that "great now Donghae can be mine", I say that there is something physical between them. They have a strong bond that cannot be defined. And to take Hyukjae away from Donghae or vice-versa WILL hurt them. They need each other.
Ducky12377 #9
I feel the same way, anytime I hear Donghae being paired with someone else it doesn't feel right, and I'm Lays saying "NO, he's Hukkies'" haha don't worry there are a lot of us who agree with you :)
narcissistic_draym
#10
Yeah. I feel the same too.

I really do ship Eunhae a lot and I can't stand seeing them being paired with any other girl it really pisses me off.
asdayuni #11
in my opinion, i really ship eunhae, i do not like if donghae or hyukjae have another pair, like haesica, or with anyone else
However, if in the end they choose for married with the girl, well I can ship what they real couple is.
However, I really ship eunhae, and I want them really married in real life hahahahaha..... Sorry^^ if you cannot understand my comment.
sign5620 #12
In my oppinion I find it wierd to ship my bias with my self, I personally just want Eunhyuk to be with Donghae
KiaKiaaah #13
Oops, I mean't that I'm NOT mad at them, sorry XD
KiaKiaaah #14
My friends are like that too sometimes. They don't REALLY belive that they cold be together, however I'm mad at them. They don't believe in Eunhae, but I do, and I'm okay with that. Personally I wouldn't dream of shipping Donghae or Hyukjae with any girl, and I really hope that they will marry one day, but I'm also not that delousinal. I know that they could possibly be just best friends, but I'm sure at some point there has been love involved, and I certainly hope there still is. Eunhae is a ship I'll always ship, and from my point of view also one of the truest ships. I could never stop loving them. >o<
I understand that you feel betrayed, and I would too, but i think you should talk it out with them if you haven't already. Who knows, they might just have a really good reason for being like that. :-)