thx

Thanks to those who responded in my previous blog. Some good advice there :) But the whole weekend had been nothing but drama and more drama, and I was really hoping that something positive would eventually come out of this but so far none.

Not even in the right state of mind to do anything now....I dunno what had transpired between these 2 but my gut feeling is strongly leaning towards my bf is kinda hooked to her now. And you can't imagine how this is making me feel. Maybe some of you might think that meh, this is nothing. But I love him a lot and it to have someone else take him away from you.

I feel like quitting and moving to another company because of this. I can't stand looking at her smug face as if she's saying, "Hey, I've won. Look at me I can get any guys that I want."

I dunno. The whole story of what happened is just way too long and I don't feel like typing it out. that I've been looking forward to see him for a whole in year and now that he's back, this get thrown in my face. I guess we're just not meant to be.

Maybe I should just break up :/

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Tk421beth #1
Some women are a holes! >_<

I think he did the right thing... He called you and is coming to see you. Shave those legs, buy a y outfit, get your hair and nails done...it's time to spice up the weekend, helllls yeah!!!

Good luck!
BrokenTypewriter #2
Thx a lot :) well of course breaking up would be the last thing I wanna do...but I just tend to feel completely defeated when things like this happen. But good thing is my guy called me back last night and sincerely apologized....and he's coming over this weekend to okay things out. Really hope we wont end up arguing again.
But I just dont understand why some women would still wanna go after guys that are clearly unavailable. Pisses me off!
miekoleiko #3
i don't think breaking up will solve much of anything. you'd still have to deal with your coworker at the office (unless of course you transfer or something.) but on that thought, why should you be the one to give up your happiness? if it were me, i'd probably tell him again. men can sometimes be oblivious to what we're feeling-even if you've already told them. maybe he just doesn't see how much it's affecting you. as far as the coworker is concerned, i totally don't blame you for wanting to hi-five her face. lol. you'd think she'd at least some sort of respect for your relationship.

situations like this kind of make me wonder. i'm married, have been for 5 years now. but my best friend is a dude. i used to wonder how my husband (well bf at the time) felt about me being so close to another guy. it took a lot of reassuring, and the fact the fact that my bestie ended up hooking up with one of my other friends for him to get it.

i remember i had a coworker that started getting close to my guy while we were kind of on a break. it used to drive me mad knowing that she knew we were on a break and here she was hanging out and openly flirting with him in front of me. it would make me even more upset when people would ask things like oh, what's going on with your dude and her? i can't remember what it was that forced he and i to talk again, but i remember us having this full fit argument to straighten everything out. it wasn't a pretty convo, but thats what it took for us to get back on the right track. i truly hope everything works out for you two. it seems like you've already gone through a whole lot to be together and it would be a shame for it to all end like that. you just have to decide what things are worth fighting for.
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