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Okay. So if you don't like slight rants, either skip to advice, or leave.

So...

I can swear on my lie, that someone commented on one of my Sehun oneshots, and she asked to translate it in Vietnamese and being the easily gullible person I am. At the time, not a lot of people were reading, so I thought, this was going to get my stories out there! And I even wanted to show my distant mom.

LOOL. That sounds bad. But I have a serious love/hate relationship with her.

So she happens to be a reader, and being as she isn't fluent in English, my stories would look like nothing to her, as she wouldn't get the context of the story, so I thought, I can show my mom now! But yea. I'm going off track.

Anyways.

So recently, people have been asking if they can translate my stories and now. I'm being super cautious. 

Cause what's worse is that I didn't screen shoot the conversation so now,there is no proof that we even talked.

So now, I might be going crazy, but there is a girl who has my story, I mean, cause obviously, copy and pasting a story takes like 2 seconds. What really gets on my nerves is that I don't know who she is, where she posted it, and if she is even fluent in Vietnamese.

No matter how much I want to take it back.

No matter how much I want to wish that translator never asked.

I can't.

This really brought me up on the issue of trust.

"Don't give people your trust too easily. Don't give in so suddenly, and don't be played too quickly." -Lei <3

So now, I'm being honest. People who have "Trust Issues"

Don't have the issues to start off with. 

There are a lot of people nowadays who lie, cheat and steal their ways into everything. So it is hard to trust a lot of people.

Trust is a gift. Not a single one of you can honestly trust the stranger walking down the street right?

You only give trust to those you know will do you right.

I honestly think that people with these so called issues are being cautious, cause:

a) Someone played with their trust

or

b) They know someone has had their trust played with

Either way.

Also!

I have my advice now.

For those who have trust issues:

"Keep your doors closed, but know that one day, there will be someone brave, trying to open them.

Which you will allow, and you will not regret that mistake.

But be cautious on who that person is, cause nowadays, anyone may seem worthy of your trust, but they could be wearing that mask of deception.

So beware.

But don't close your doors to the point where no one can ever enter.

Cause if someone does find their way to earning your trust, who will be able to catch you form that destruction?"

For those who think they can trust the whole population:

"Remember.

Keeping those doors open too wide can let anyone come through.

Don't be surprised, if it comes back to bite you in the .

Trust isn't just a game and once you die you have 3 lives.

Oh no.

Trust is only given to someone when you can honestly see that they will not disrespect and harm you whatsoever in anyway.

But living in the world we live today, I don't think that will happen.

So you might want to find a good lock for those doors so they can shut out those who may potentially hurt you."

For those who think that people's trust is for someone to play with:

"Think about what you are doing. You re breaking someone's doors that they have built for a long time.

It isn't something that you can play with, break, and then leave.

First of all, you try fixing something that took years to build.

Second. Think about how the other person might feel.

Do you not have the conscience to think that it is wrong?

Breaking trust is easy, but it's hard to fix.

So please. Think about what you're going to do.

And think about it like this. If someone went, and stole your whole life earnings and savings that you planned for using for university, but when you go and find the money, it isn't there anymore. All that hard work is now broken. 

I hope you imagine yourself as the someone who took everything."

So I hope you can make it clear.

If trust was a game. Then we would treat every person with the same trust.

But it definitely isn't, so be careful before you end up having a game over.

And all on your own terms.

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Hai GUISE and GULLSSS :3

I've been wanting to create a life sort of corner for sometime ow, so here it is :D

I hope you can learn from my advice and mistakes -_____________-

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Question: Have you ever had someone/something cause you to change your outlook on any virtue? How and when?

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