Reasons why being shy .

Being shy ....I would know. It might not seem like such a big deal....But if you were like me and thought a lot about it,it ....A lot.

1.I'm so anti-social...I'm never the first one to say anything ...Ever... I'm just way too shy and nervous....Afraid that I'll do something stupid...Or say something stupid...I hate being with a crowd of people...I feel uncomfortable...

2.I can't even answer a simple question when the teacher calls on me.I mean,I know the answer...I'm just afraid that I'll get the answer wrong and will look stupid....When I do answer,I answer very quietly.Most of the time I know the answers.....But I'm just too scared....

3.School year is almost over and I haven't said one word to my crush.Well he asked me one question about something but that was it...Plus his friend was there so it doesn't count.For some reason I feel that he hates me...But then again,I think everybody hates me.I just can't bring myself to talk to him.What if he doesn't like me....(I don't even mean it in a romantic way)...I mean what I if he really just doesn't like me.....What if I look or sound stupid?~....Maybe he wouldn't want to talk to girls like me....

4.I let people push me around too easily.Of course I'll snap once in a while...but...still.Now that I think about it....I think I gave those people a reason to bully me....I'm so shy,I would freeze when I get called on the teacher...It's little stuff like that,that makes me look stupid....

How I'm socially akward....It's wierd...And I'm not one to fight people...I guess I was an easy target.

It's probably my insecurity....The reason why I get so shy and nervous.....

It's my depression.....Since there's never a time where I think I actually look good~....

That explains everything.....how I think I'll look stupid....How I think my crush hates me....How nervous I am.

I just wish I wasn't born this way...Or better yet...Never born at all~.....

Like....What's...The point?....I'm so freakin pathetic...Not because I'm all shy....

Because of many things....If I had anything to be confident about,I would be.

I just want to dissappear....

I'm so sorry...Again...For ranting~..... Just wanted to let it out. I sound stupid?....Yeah I know...But hey it's not..That..Stupid...Right?D:....

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--apple139-- #1
Oh,unnie.....

1. Anti social?? Guess what?? Me too!! Eventhough I have like a gazilliom friends at school, I'm very anti social too outside the school gates. I don't know why though.. Whenever mom or dad brings a guest that has a daughter at the same age, I'll be inside my room, listening to kpop and ignoring my mom or dad's request to be friends with her.. But now I'm improving a little bit do yeah.....

Try by saying hello first and maybe start by saying simple like 'what's your name' and stuff... Then talk about other stuff like ' do you watch glee?? Isn't Finn and puck just hawt???' if they say they don't, then ask them what do they watch instead and try to keep up by saying 'ohhhh' and 'really??'. It always works for me......

2. Well, this is the easiest.. If you know the answer already, don't be afraid to say it cause it's ALREADY CORRECT!!! If you do get the wrong answer, just say ' ohhh.... I knew that would be that answer, I was just waiting for you to correct me... Haha... And besides, not everybody always get the right answers, right??

3. Life goes on, you know.. If your crush isn't speaking to you or you have no guts to face your crush, just find a new crush.. It happened to me.. I liked this guy and we werent really close so I gave up and I liked another guy and guess what?? The guy i liked before started noticing me and we started hanging out.. Buy, if you really, really,really like that guy sooo much, just try and talk to him, unnie... Maybe start with a simple 'hey'??? :-)

4. Push them back.... Hahaha just kidding... Snap at them back out loud so that the people around can hear and they'll be embarrassed....


Unnie, we were born so that we could live.. And it's our jib to live it with no regrets.. And to get that, we must start changing. Ourselves... Wait, no..... Two words...,,

NOBODY'S PERFECT......

Love you, unnie....<3
kpopqirl #2
oh i know such situations ... i am also afraid to give
a wrong answer... and i haven't said a word to my
crush as well, just a simple hello.
But I bet you're a beautiful person!

I know it sounds easy, but maybe you could
try to be more open towards people?
I've hated being anywhere with too much people
but I am starting to get used to it.

And Don't say things like 'I wish I wasn't born'
There's a reason for everyone to be on earth,
you just have to find it! and think about all
the things you've did and all the peoples who you Love.
What if you weren't able to meet them?

There's nothing wrong in being shy, some people
May find that interesting.. Just be how you want to
be and do whatever you want! :) and Don't be afraid of
doing something stupid - you're a human, everyone
makes mistakes! :)

sorry for the long comment but I hope
it cheers you up a bit?

~ kpopqirl :3
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