Am I Wrong

so basically me and my partner got into our first real "fight" though idk if I should call it a fight because to me it wasn't that serious but anyways heres what happened

so all day earlier I hadn't talk to them and they just assumed I was busy and though I kinda was at the same time I wasn't because I was reading fanfic so later when I did talk to them we had a nice time and funny conversation then I was tired to I said I would probably go to sleep and its been a long day so he asked what'd I do today and I told them not much I just stayed up real late the previous day and  then that I hadn't talked to them because I was reading fanfic and that'd I'd talk to them the next day

so then they were like "okay yeah I'll pretend I'm not offended about you blowing me off just go to bed or whatever"

and I kinda sensed there was feelings so I was like I love you and I got no response and I waited a few more minutes and I was like say it back so I can have a piece of mind while I rest 

then they sent a not that long but some what of a paragragh saying how they hate how I'm always busy and we talk at random times of the day and and I was just like I'm sorry babe not my fault you know I try to talk to you when I can but between work and school I get stressed and and I want to relieve it by reading about dudes ing and each others didn't mean to ignore you It was long and I lost track of time so they're like yeah ok good night ily like that ily and we never do that we always spell it out and do the cute little I love you more and the most and stuff but I'm guessing they're still mad and im supposed to be the mature one like always and be like I'm sorry which I did say like 5 times 

so I just wanted to know Am I Wrong

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tiny_smalltiny #1
Yes and no. Yes because your partner is probably feeling insecure and hurt about you “paying attention at random times” but no because they did overreact a bit and you shouldn’t have to constantly apologize.
MissMinew #2
I think there’s something underlying here, a sense of insecurity on their part. It would be nice of you to ask them about it, sit down and say “hey, I understand it might be difficult for you to only get my attention at what might feel like random times, do you want to talk?” And be fully present in that conversation about emotions and stuff. To me it sounds like your partner is having a hard time feeling let down and insecure.
Maknae_M #3
In my opinion they should understand that after a long tiring day, you'd feel that way. I also think you need to update your partner even if its the smallest thing. If you did and your partner still feels that way, welp you guys should have a serious talk about it.
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