ZHAO XIE EN MAY KISS THE GROOM

ZHAO
XIE EN



"the things i went through before i met him is the most beautiful thing i have. i mean... i don't have to bickering back and forth every each day. i don't have to prepare meals three times a day. i don't have to do chores. i don't have to take care of him when he gets sick or cheer him up during his down. but... to imagine live without him, is something that weirdly i can't."

THE BRIDE
NAME : zhao xie en  
NICKNAME(S) :

saeun - her korean name, made by sanghyuk since it's hard for him to spell her birthname. only sanghyuk call her this
kiddo - also sanghyuk call her by this name because eventhough they're only 1 year apart, xie en act like a little kid
zhao - since her family name isn't very common in korea, coworkers began to refer her as 'zhao'

BIRTHDAY : october 23rd 1996 (25)
OCCUPATION : the sichuan basin's kitchen worker
PROFANITY : she only curse to one and only han sanghyuk (and she does that in cantonese so her respectful husband won't realize it)
LANGUAGE(S)

cantonese // altough she grew up in south korea, her first couple of years speaking was constantly with her family members, who always spoke cantonese to her. she picked up the language easily with weak language barriers, and continues to speak it at home to her family. her ability in speaking cantonese is conversational and is able to understand & speak it, but can't read or write at all
korean // fluent as she spent her whole life in south korea

FACECLAIM : gugudan's sally
BACKUP : dreamcatcher's handong

APPEARANCE : the first things you notice when you see xie en are her cheeks, baby fat still clinging onto her face. standing at 166 cm and weighing 51kg, xie en is considered to be quite skinny and tall - at least that's what she heard from her coworkers. she's all white snow, smooth skin with peach blossom cheeks. she has a long wavy hair black hair that stop right behind her back. her round hazel eyes often described as doe eyes by sanghyuk.

STYLE : her wardrobe consists of bits and pieces that she's collected over the years. xie en prefers to be in dresses than other clothes. not saying she won't wear sporty outfits, it's just... far and few between when she's seen in anything other than the simple dresses or cute skirts. more info, her wardrobe is full with white. others might described her as an angel while sanghyuk called her evil dressed as angel.
work outfit : black chef shirt along with grey tailored pants plus a white apron.

    
PERFECT TO ONE
TRAITS ESFP - GRYFFINDOR - BLOOD TYPE : B - SANGUINE - CHAOTIC GOOD
(+) optimistic, caring, carefree, easy going, amicable
(-) stubborn, childish, hard to focus, impulsive, blunt
 
PERSONALITY 
 
to xie en, nothing is a 'failure'. xie en knows that mistakes, errors, impossible challenges, and unachieved goals exist. but she wouldn't call any of these outright failures. she has the ability to look for the positive, to see the bright side of life. no great human accomplishments were ever achieved without difficulty and error. mistakes that were corrected, holes that were filled, and failures that were overcome make up the foundation of great accomplishments. in every mistake there lies a lesson. and in each lesson, there is an opportunity to growth. xie en knows that failure is only when she stop trying. but there's a point for all her goals becomes just that : goals. it's hard for xie en to plan and plot through ideas or project and then actually carry through with them. it's not easy for her to hands-on carry out her imagination, and her ideas usually just stay ideas without her acting on them.
 
suffering comes in many different forms and, whether we like it or not, the world is full of it. while other people can turn a blind eye to it and act like it doesn't exist, when she sees someone suffer, a fire ignites within her and gives her the determination to do something about it. her willingness to help can come in many different forms, but she will try to contribute to the easing of that person's suffering in any way she can - no matter how big or small the gesture is.
 
what's done is done. she does not cling on to her past and remorse about her bad experiences. even if she did the dumbest mistake in workplace, she just laugh at herself at the thought of it and think how fool she was. because nothing really is a big deal. she doesn't internalize problems. xie en doesn't become overwhelmed or bogged down by life's problems. with her laid-back attitudes, she knows all too well that even the worst problems are temporary.
 
due to her friendly nature, she is even more popular than sanghyuk among the people in his workplace as she often brings food for his subordinate on a regular basis and she knows how to steal his bosses' heart.
 
the worst of her, being wrong is unacceptable. even when the proof is staring her in the face, she cannot help but try to find excuses for her behavior. she hates admitting that she is wrong so strongly that she is willing to make bold claims that really cut down her authority on anything for the future. and like that, she tends to cry out of frustation. when things go wrong, just like a children, she looks to blame someone instead of look to fix the problem.
 
xie en tends to follow her heart more than her mind which has brought her trouble more than she'd like to admit. her behaviour is sometimes deemed to be reckless and it's the main thing that her boss and sanghyuk scold and remind her about.
 
and no matter how caring she is, still xie en won't hesitate to call you out on your bull, often expressing mild disbelief at any stupidity that happens in front of her. and by bull, she means 'foolish insolent talk'. 
 
TRIVIA :
✤ xie en's motto : my life... jiayo! live while smiling
✤ she loves to make everyone in the room laugh by goofing around
✤ she also can make dimples that look like cat's moustache
✤ unlike other who'd spirt out pesticide or step on them till death whenever see cockroaches, she'd rather catch them in a jar and release them outside. 
"they deserve live too, you know!"
✤ her hobbies are cooking, eating, and shopping
✤ never failed in making any food. just give her the recipe or let her taste them. she'd make them succesfully
✤ as nice as she is, she often gives out food (mostly chinese) or simple snacks to the neighbours
✤ her dream job is actually a teacher. she was graduated from education faculty but finding job was kind of hard these days so to the small chinese restaurant she landed
✤ her instagram, twitter, and tiktok handles are @xieen.h. it was @xieen.z but changed into @xieen.h when she was married to sanghyuk
✤ instagram mostly filled by food made by her, twitter filled by jokes about sanghyuk (yes, you should check on her twitter to find a lot of sanghyuk's memeable pics) and tiktok is where she'd dancing around on her free time (sometimes she'd tagged sanghyuk along, forced of course)
✤ has really small sneezes and people don't believe her when she says she was sneezing. they thought she just making weird sounds
✤ her favourite movie series are narnia and harry potter. will always forced sanghyuk to watch this during their movie time
✤ dislikes alcohol and the smell of them
✤ xie en doesn't wear make up. and if she does, she goes natural. it's usually for some special occasion like a family's wedding or sanghyuk's office party. besides, she's the type that takes care of her skin very much so she already look flawless with her bare skin (according to her)
likes sanghyuk's hug very much. she says it's like the warmest blanket ever
✤ an avid big fan of gongcha
 
BACKGROUND : xie en is the second and youngest daughter of zhao family. ever since she was a child, her and xie en was like yin and yang. the two were very different. xie yi is the smart one, the one who need to be protected, also the kind of playgirl. while xie en is... less smart (well she always land on the bottom rank), the strong one and... never dated before on her life. she just feels like no men ever catch her interest. even so, xie en has always been the princess at zhao's residence. everyone loves her no matter how often she being the pain in their . no one ever said 'no' to her, moreover xie yi. she just love her baby sister too much.

later on xie yi got a decent job as a recruiter in staffing company. while xie en, rejected in every school she applied to and ended up working as a kitchen worker in a small family chinese restaurant. at least, she got to do what she love, that was what xie en thought when she finally got the job.

one day, grandpa zhao told the girls that he once made a promise with his bestfriend. that in the future, they would match their grandchild up. fortunately, mr. zhao blessed with two beautiful granddaughter while mr. han having a grandson. as if the god heard their promise. upon this, mr. zhao asked one of her grandchild to help him fulfil his promise.

unlike her usual being, xie yi won't gave up easily. she was stronly rejected the request as she was totally in love with her boyfriend at that time. xie en, too, eventually refused the honor as she still want to enjoy her youth. in the end, xie en was chosen after having lost a game of rock-paper-scissors to her elder sister and was sent to meet mr. han's grandson.
GUESTS OF HONOR
 
                               
✤ ZHAO XIE YI // 26 // OLDER SISTER 

INTERACTIONS : xie yi and xie en, when they were small kids called themselves best friends rather than siblings. always hanging out and taking cute matching pictures together but as they grew older and xie yi kept changing boyfriends, they didn't hang out together as much. franly said, yes sometimes xie en felt like she was left out. they're still close today even after that rock-paper-scissor event but they're not like the cliche overprotective older sister and helpless younger one. xie en is actually the strongest one between the two. yet even so xie yi would always there to give moral supports for her baby sister. after all, marriage isn't a simple thing. moreover xie en is married to a cold stranger.
                             
 
✤ MAISIE WU // 25 // NEIGHBOR - SISTERLIKE FRIEND 

INTERACTIONS : xie en first met maisie when she showed her the apartment. she was really happy to be able to meet another chinese. to make things better, maisie was a newlywed couple as well like her. ever since then, the two have been good friends with xie en always giving maisie first whenever she cooks new dish. whenever xie en has free time, maisie would be the one she asked to hang out with. that's okay if maisie rejects her offer tho, no hard feelings. maisie is been the one to advice xie en when it comes to 'bed thing' as xie en knows maisie is kind of vulgar person, so she never hesitates to ask her. xie eun is also pretty sure, if she wants her marriage life went smooth, then maisie is the person to ask. she even trust her opinion more than her mother's. xie en calls maisie 'jiejie' on the daily even though they are same-aged.

 
THE LOVE STORY

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PROLOGUE

before the two officially met each other, the grandpas showed the pictures of one another. when xie en first saw sanghyuk's picture, the impression she got was : this is a fine man in such young age. with her naive mind, she announced her winning to xie yi, said that it was xie yi's lost that she got to married han sanghyuk.

in the other hand, sanghyuk too, felt like zhao xie en was a nice, elegant, and calm girl (based on her picture). he didn't know that it took almost a whole day for xie en to get that picture (and xie yi's getting frustated since she was the one who asked to take the picture).

as the two agreed, they both went to several dates. sanghyuk pretended being a nice gentleman. he was so soft and charming that xie en was so sure she finally met her prince charming. while xie en tried her best to act like an elegant lady so sanghyuk thought the idea of getting married with this stranger woman wasn't a bad thing as well.

on their fourth date, following what his grandfather said, sanghyuk took xie en to lotte department store's food court. out of the blue, he just knelt down and pulled out a ring box.

"i know we just met a month ago and we haven't know each other too well. but i can't imagine growing old with anyone else, nor do i want to. so... zhao xie en, would you marry me?"
the words was made by his grandfather. all the visitors went wild and cheer for the couple but xie en's reaction was...
"oh my gosh..."
then she ran away. it was too cringey and... embarassing. leaving sanghyuk who stood up and agaped for awhile before ran away, too.
later xie en made a phone call to sanghyuk :

"sanghyuk-ssi..."
"oh now you're calling after embarassing me in front of the whole foodcourt."
"i just want to say... what? wait, did you just blame me for what happened?"
"yes."
"but it was your fault!"
"how could it was my fault? you were the one who just ran away without saying a word."
"diew lei! you're the one who proposed suddenly... in front of strangers. can you imagine how i felt that time?"
"nope. my grandpa said you should be flattered actually. and what you said? diew what?"
"and how could you arrange what i suppose to feel??? ban jau!"
"stop saying weird things in your language!!"
"and stop shouting!"
"..."
"..."
"so would you marry me or no?"
"... yes... that was i want to tell you earlier."
"okay then it's set up."
actually, at that time they felt something was off. maybe their partner wasn't as perfect as they imagined. but they shrugged it off, though and... married six months after the weird proposal.

the wedding was held in a well-known hotel with all red since they use traditional chinese wedding ceremony. all of their family member and friends came. they were still adore each other like they first met since they were still in their pretending mode. everyone believed, they were that cute couple which destined for each other.

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EPILOGUE

right after the wedding ended, felt like they didn't need to put on a facade anymore, sanghyuk back to his real state. the cold ruthless man who listed do(s) and don't(s) for their marriage. xie en was surprised at how different his husband was. so she put off her mask as well and spoke up to him, sanghyuk dumbfounded. knew they won't be the ideal couple expected by both family, they agreed to look for an apartment as soon as they back from their honeymoon.

the honeymoon wasn't a beautiful memories either for them. except for those pretty places they went to. the two always argues even for the most minor reasons. it still happened until now though.

"we need to make a rule that will save us i swear. is that if you say no to one place then you have to offer another. your only participation can't be criticism."
"but it's yours, men's job, to decide everything."
"aren't women always says gender equality?"
"not for me. i like it better when my hubby does everything a man should. imma just a fragile and weak lady though."
"i can't stand with this bull..."
"chuckdeela! what did you say??"
"stop with that random language!"
"siblings should never fighting..."
"she is not my sister."
"it would be a curse if i have a brother like him."
"friends?"
"nope."
"no."
"a couple, maybe?"
"why would i have a barbaric girlfriend like her?"
"i would never dating him of course!"
"so... you two are strangers? be careful. old people say those who fight a lot maybe end up bound in a red string..." then the stranger look at their wedding ring. "oh you two are married indeed?... may god bless your marriage."
living with them means you will hear a scream and shout every single day. but there are also times when xie en being extremely clingy that sanghyuk couldn't say a word. clingy xie en is the cutest thing he ever seen. besides, spending much times together makes them realize, they might not the sweetest couple in the world. in fact, they were strangers. but this string grown an affection between them. instead of lover, they'd call themself as bestfriend as they can talk and argue about anything.

good thing they have their own schedule so they don't have to see each other 24/7. on weekdays, xie en wakes up at around 6 am for light stretches and preparing breakfast plus lunch box for her husband. also even though she never put a make up on, she knows she takes very long time getting ready. as sanghyuk would always already departs to his office, she usually take a bus ride to the restaurant. her work hour starts from 10 am to 7 pm. after her work ends, she usually comes to sanghyuk's bring some food and give them to his subordinates. or when she could steal enough times, she'd make a special dish and give them to sanghyuk's boss (yes she learn how to apple-polish from her hubby, he said if he could promoted to higher position then he'd give her more money for her shopping hobby). if she too tired, then she'd go straight home. at home, she makes an effort to finish all of the house chores before dinner.

for sanghyuk, he wakes up at 6.15, take a shower, brush his teeth, eat breakfast, pick an outfit for the day, read newspaper with a cup of coffee and departs at 7.15 with his car. he usually arrives at the office at 7.30 altough the work actually starts at 8. sanghyuk has a few friends that he meets with every days during his lunch (he prefers xie en's packed lunch over food provided by the company as he thinks his wife's are much tastier), but that's the extent of his 'going out'. he will never go drink after work or go to karaoke with them. he usually gets home at 8, he'll most likely take a bath and eat dinner before knocking out on bed for a good hour. extra task (which for unknown reasons he always have) usually done at around midnight. he'll sleep after all of his work done.

on weekends, they will spend their days in their apartment or go to their parents'. sometimes, the parents will visit them to make sure everything alright. once in a while, xie en will hang out with her sister.

their constant arguments might tired them out at some point. but not also that, their own bad flaws might be the biggest obstacles on the young couple's marriage.

altough xie en often gets on his nerve, still, she is his wife so sanghyuk eventually care for her. he once came to the sichuan basin and hate the fact that the owner treat xie en badly. not to mention, they also gave poor salary. he asked xie en to resign since the payment he got every month is actually enough for them. xie en refused, said she want to work because it's boring for her to just stay on their apartment. so as the exchange, sanghyuk ask her to make her own as he remember xie en ever said she want to have her own resto. his savings are more than enough for him buy a little small for her. too bad xie en isn't a good planner. all she does is just dream without any effort to make it come true. sanghyuk would be like "how to help a person when they do no effort in helping themselves? screw them." also the two have different way of thinking. xie en use her heart more than her mind, the total opposite of sanghyuk. can you imagine how often they fight because of this?

on the other side, xie en thought she already gave her best in becoming her version of 'good wife'. yes they argue a lot but still she does her duty. she takes care of him nicely. but she felt like sanghyuk never appreciate her. even a simple 'thanks' never come out of his mouth. at first, due to her carefree nature, she thought it was nothing. but as time goes on, she think it is a big problem. sanghyuk himself realized that. too bad he can't express his feelings well. the result? he always act coldly and ignorant towards his wife.

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COUPLE TRIVIA :
✤ got married on april 12th 2020
✤ was went to guangdong for their honeymoon. that was when they first having as well (they simply did that out of curiousity). next time sanghyuk said they have to visit miami but when will they go for another one still remains mistery. he is too busy with his work
movie night are their things though most of the times they'd watching narnia or harry potter because of xie en
sanghyuk's playlist is heaven. that's why xie en likes to steal one of her earbud whenever he listening to songs
eventhough xie en and sanghyuk haven't know each other very well, if one of them tries to hide something, the other will know. they can tell when something's off about the other, even if it's not noticeable. since being a psychology graduate, sanghyuk could notice every little detail. but even though he's ahead, you can't underestimate xie en and her women's intuition.
rarely hang out with each other outside the apartment building. mainly because of their different wants. xie en likes outdoor places like amusement park so she could show off them being lovey dovey in front of others while sanghyuk enjoys private places more.
the two were never dating with anyone else before. funny thing, even they once thought they were aromantic.
will only behave like a romantic couple whenever their parents and sanghyuk's collagues (he doesn't want to ruin his perfect image in the office) are around. other than that... they'll curse and even strangles each other's neck (literally; sometimes).
✤ on their sweet couple mode, they'll act like those lovey dovey couple which would make you throw up. 
✤ on her clingy day, xie en would hug sanghyuk the whole day. the only times she would let go of him are just bathing and eating time.
✤ would build a pillow tower in the middle of their bed every single night. says the other can't across the other's. but most of the times it'll ruined by themselves actually.
✤ sanghyuk doesn't like the idea xie en asking around about other couples' bed thingy. it's embarassing for him but... the girl just can't stop. and she will ask him to do that whenever she gets something from her 'research'.

"did you ask people around about that ing style and position?"
"yes."
"i don't understand why did you do that?"
"just because..."
"were our... you know... eum i mean... did i not satisfy you?"
"nope."
"SO WHY?"
"gosh stop screaming! i just want to know..."
"you can look for them in internet or...reading some books. should i buy some for you?"
"ye.."
"on second thought no, i won't. that's embarassing."
"but... isn't that normal? i mean... gege, we're just married for couple of months. geez... it's okay i think to ask around to them who has more experience than us..."
"i... just can't understand the way you think."
✤ but in the end he will always do what xie en said though.
✤ no matching outfit nor things. xie en asks once. and they eventually wore it once. but then decide it was too cringey so they shove them away.
✤ there is also no wedding picture hanging on their apartment room. again, it's too cringey plus their smile looks obviously faked. it was saved on an empty room they used as a storeroom. only hanged when their parents or again sanghyuk's colleagues come.
✤ the code to their apartment room is '6666'. no particular reason. sanghyuk said once it was devil number because a devil live in it.
✤ when they come to the apartment event or anything that required all the couples come : xie en is that chatty neighbor who will ask a lot (what is privacy?) while there sanghyuk stand in the corner watching his wife in headache assuming what crazy idea she will suggest when the night come.

HAN
SANGHYUK



"she's like a mom who will take care of me really well. she's a sister who would whines and mad whenever you reject her wish. she's a cute girlfriend who will cling onto you for whole day. she's a wife who'd greet you with a warm smile whenever you get home. she's a bestfriend who will always support you no matter what. she's everything to me... yet i can't say a single nice word to her."

THE GROOM
BACKUP : exo's kai
NICKNAME(S) :

✤ gege - means older brother or same with 'oppa' in mandarin. xie en is the one who call him by this name
BIRTHDAY : july 5th 1995 (26)
OCCUPATION : hr manager at middle sized company
PROFANITY : sometimes... when xie en really get on his nerves
SOULMATE
TRAITS : INTJ - SLYTHERIN - BLOOD TYPE : O - CHOLERIC - LAWFUL GOOD 
(+) charming, ambitious, intelligent
(-) cold, distrustful, stubborn
 
PERSONALITY 
sanghyuk is definitely one of the guys that every ladies want like what said on got7's song 'every lady want a piece of me'. he is pretty laid back and act like he doesn't care about anything if not related to his work. he has a certain aura that can make ladies hard to take their eyes off of him.

when he sets goals, then it has to be achieved. no wonder, in such a young age he already sat in a 'good' position. his motivation is the key thing that distinguishes him from others, but he also score highly in the area of personality called 'self-regulation'. he takes risks after calculating things precisely, are willing to plan his time down to the last minute, and can examine his own emotions and calm himsef down if situations get intense (exception for situations with xie en. according to sanghyuk, that girl just cannot be tamed).

and this ambitious side of him also supported by his smart brain. he was always in the upper grade among all of the student in his major. and he is passionately curious. it's like he always thirst to learn something new.

sanghyuk doesn't often show much interest in the person he's with. he has very little interest in other people. he won't ask you questions about yourself. or, if he does, it's to learn information that is useful to him in some way.


he also can't trust people easily. it's because he doesn't know how to reach out to people because he believes everyone is his rival in reaching his goals. because his family was also came from the lower class when none ever give their hand to help. thus he believes the only thing that can support him is himself. but as the story progress, xie en's presence and efforts to give more color on sanghyuk's dull days slowly begin to change him, learning to slowly start becoming more relaxed and lively.

one thing that similar between him and xie en, but also the reason of their arguments is : there are times when sanghyuk knows he's not a gracious winner. sometimes he can be downright smug. but he always thinks he's the mr. right. who cares about other's opinion?
 
BACKGROUND : once han family was known as a successful textile trader. they had several shops in various places in seoul. but when sanghyuk's father got scammed, they fell into bankruptcy.

people around started to act different towards them. there are no longer good friend or things like that. everyone seemed to focus on how fool mr. han was to the point he could get scammed and lost his wealths. upon this, sanghyuk grew as an ambitious as well as distrustful person. he believed the only person who can help him in any condition is himself.
 
years passed, grandpa han told a story about his bestfriend. about his promise to marry off their grandchild. sanghyuk never interested in any women. he was too busy pursuing his career. but at the same time, weird rumour about him being gay was somehow spreaded in the office. he had no choice, maybe marrying a girl (even though she's a stranger) was the best decision at that time. so he agreed right away.
 
TRIVIA :
✤ afraid to death towards cockroaches. good thing now he has xie en around. but that mischievous girl, knowing the fact, often tease sanghyuk by chasing him arround while carrying a jar full of cockroaches.
✤ #1 fan of xie en's homemade dish
✤ prior to their marriage, sanghyuk loves gopchang very much, while xie en hates the thing because she thinks it's disgusting. because of sanghyuk, she learn how to make the dish. as the result? xie en's gopchang is the best gopchang in the world (according to sanghyuk)
✤ hates cheese
✤ because he is lactose intolerant
✤ but once said he wants to eat pizza and spaghetti so xie en again has to learn how to make pizza and spaghetti without any lactose involved and cheese
✤ his favorite colors are black and white. most of his outfits are in these colors
✤ his hobby is reading
✤ sometimes talk in his sleep. this usually occurs when he's too tired and all the things he talk about is his job
✤ has a lion doll that he named leo. received it from his teacher in elementary school. now the lion sat on the top of their bed
✤ once he attended a cosplay event and cosplayed as sasuke from naruto. sanghyuk's mom secretly showed the picture to xie en. she took the photo and use that thing to blackmail her own husband. now you know the reason why sanghyuk would always do anything xie en asked.
HONEYMOON BOUND
NICKNAME : dea
ACTIVITY RATE : medium
COMMENTS, QUESTIONS, SUGGESTIONS : i had plenty of fun making xie en's app and i hope you'll like her too! i hope i can describe enough of her being an evill inside of the family circle but look like a pure angel outside. if anything seems out of sorts, just lemme know and i'll get it done asap
SCENE REQUESTS 
✤ xie en - maisie cooking session which later turned out to them talking about their husband...
✤ xie en finally managed to take sanghyuk out to lotte world!!
✤ road trip for all the couples!
✤ xie yi finally getting married! can xie en and sanghyuk keep shut their mouth up during the 2 hours ceremony?
✤ the husbands hanging out? wondering what would the men say about their wife

 

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