Holy crap, I can't believe it's been almost two years since I was really active on this website!

So many memories of hours spent writing, reading, and generally obsessing over all that was BL!  Alas, time passes, life changes, and things that were once the central focus of your life gets put aside for new priorities.

I'm getting married!

Shocker, I know.  I, who once seriously entertained the idea of greeting old age with several well loved cats, found a man that not only lived up to all of my wishful expectations but also makes me feel like nothing in my life has really changed (in the positive way).  I thought I'd have to give up so many things once I found someone; gaming, anime, dramas... all of my painfully introverted habits.  Instead, my everyday is much the same; we game together, watch anime together, watch dramas together and do all the things I used to love together.  Crazy how easy it is to integrate someone into your so seemingly closed off life when they're a right fit.

That being said though, the one side I've yet to show him is my inner fujoshi.  Do I plan to reveal it to him someday?  Maybe, if the topic comes up.  For now, I'm perfectly happy keeping it to myself and feeding the urges with the odd BL snippet here and there.  It was a big aspect of my life when I had nobody to give my attention to.  Now, it's become a small fraction of what I love.  Fortunately, the conversation should be relatively an easy one.  His mind is open and, though a "man's man" through and through, he embraces support for LGBT with open arms (because lets be honest... if he didn't, I probably wouldn't marry him).

Anyway, that's where I've been the last 1.5 years!  Now I'm busy planning a wedding, worrying about adult responsibilities and generally living a happy life.  

It doesn't mean I'll give up AFF; I do still dream of finishing a few of the stories I've started (particularly Dolls 2).  What it does mean, however, is my updates will become even more sparse than before.  

Til next time!