Yoochun

I posted this on my Twitter. I’m leaving for a short vacation and I won’t be online for a couple of days because I need it. But these are my thoughts.

All I will say is not everyone is mentally capable of supporting Yoochun. There’s people that need to take a breather and step back. People need to take care of themselves too and there’s different ways of coping with these situations. If you don’t understand that then you are also wrong. Not everything is your way and not everyone is the same way as you are.  I have seen people saying “I’ll block and unfollow all of those who are not supporting Yoochun,” but what about that person’s mental being?

Do you know if they are mentally prepared to support an idol no matter the consequences? What do you know about it? Nothing. So, be less biased. Maybe that person needs to step back and think for a while, leaving all the drama behind and find himself/herself. Now, if they are hurting Yoochun and saying they hope he dies, then you have every right to do what you think it’s best for your own sanity. After all, we are all humans, but most of the people I have seen that took the determination of not following anymore, they all have said the same thing “I wish you well”. And that is maturity. However feels like I’m attacking and doesn’t want to deal with this anymore, feel free to block me or unfollow me. I’ll keep writing and I’ll keep updating my followers with my Yunjae posts.

It’s my way of keeping my sanity intact. Because I need to take care of myself too. If I don’t do it, no one will. Not even my husband. It all depends on me. And I’m out. Please, keep supporting my stories. And I wish you well, Yoochun. I really do. All I want is your well-being and for you to be genuinely happy. 

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cold_eyes14
#1
In the past, it is always black and white for me. If a person did something bad, I won't forgive that person and I don't give a about his/her reason but as you grow old and began to understand that the world you're living in is not what you thought it is.. I'm seeing gray and other layers of color in every people's action and the "motivation" or "trigger" became a common term in my vocabulary. There is always 2 sides of story and truth is sometimes not as clear as water. I'm not a yoochun stanner/fanatic or whatever you called it but ever since the scandal. I didn't feel any regret or disappointment to this man. it's more of worry because it's so hard to see the people you care becoming lost, broken and self-destruct and all you can do is watch it, hate it and judge it. That awful feeling is coming back to me and I'm always a silent fan and I'm shutting the fandom in my life since 2013 because even though it's been 10 years, I'm not healed. I couldn't accept it so I've stayed far away from this fandom because it's becoming exhaustive and toxic and to be honest, it so hard to think rationally when we always have a never ending drama and we're all divided. I wish Yoochun to be happy and learn something from it. I hope he will not loose faith and hope in life. I believe everyone is entitled for their chances.
Cherrynis
#2
I know, right~ heal and love ourself before other than we can love better....
Sakura_Aimi
#3
I will always love Yoochun from the past and cherish the moments and memories that he gave to us by being in the spotlight but I from now on I will wish him well. And I hope that he doesn't give in to any negative thoughts he has or negative things people are wishing upon him. I posted on my blog too right after I found out and I was heartbroken at the news but after thinking about it, it's better to just cherish the memories and wish for the best.
Pab0Panda
#4
Seriously I think everyone makes mistakes but if you're an idol your life is like over. I don't want to excuse him but I do think people are going pretty hard on him
ChrizLulu
#5
Its heartbreaking reading the news about YC...I still cant believe he destroy his career, life and the trusts that his fans, family and friends have for him..if he is 100% found guilty, i hope he reflected on his action, make amends with himself and move on towards whatever future that he will have before him...i wish him well and hope he will not resort to drastic measures like suicidal thoughts etc. (I'm worried about this the most)..I dont support what he had done but at the same time I wish him well and be strong, face the consequences of his action like a gentleman that he is...

meanwhile...I am also sad that no more JYJ reunion with this...I wish Jaejoong and Junsu well <3