Body Shaming?

Hello fellas! :) 

 

            I just want to ask you guys, is it wrong to have some extra fats? I hate when people around me especially my relatives keep saying that im 'so' fat infront of people that i dont really know and laughing at me. I do have feelings too. I wanted to love myself and love they way i am but these kind of people not helping at all. I only gained a few pounds and i kinda like my weight now and im healthy! Even one of my friends in the same situation as mine because people keep calling her stick matches because she is skinny. Wtf? What actually these people wants? damn i just got so mad rn lol i might break this keyboard hjshsjshshsjshsjsh. STOP BODY SHAMING! IT IS NOT NICE. 

            By the way, I just got bored and i was thinking about making friends. Oh ya if you guys have snapchat or instagram, pls leave your username in the comment section so i can add you! 

 

love,

iest thic girl

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Nah_Duh #1
Just say "i am healthy" in front of them. Smack some facts to their faces. I mean, what is the definition of fat itself??? Isn't it means unhealthy?
mistressdean
#2
One thing to keep in mind is that you can NEVER make anyone happy about your size, especially relatives. It doesn't matter if you're fat or skinny, people will always find other flaws to point out in you. But their judgement/attitude is a just reflection of themselves.

I'm glad to hear you're being positive about your size. I struggled with body weight issues in high school, and it really killed my self-esteem.
sleepingprince
#3
Ignore those who fat shame you . Who are they to judge you ? You're beautiful the way you are. As long as you are healthy and happy with your body thats good enough. You dont need others acceptance to be who you are. You dont have to fit in any crazy standards that people create. Continue to love yourself and stay amazing :)
imjaebeoms
#4
Honestly, as long as you're at a healthy weight - it's fine. Some people look different despite having the same weight. Everyone's body is different.

I stopped caring what people said about my body and focused on getting healthier. I used to be overweight as a younger kid but then i shed all my babyfat and got super thin - people made fun of me regardless. What's the use of pleasing others if you'll only suffocate in the process? Just be confident with how you look!