There was a guy that confessed to me that they had feelings for me. I was mad that he had feelings for me which you may think sounds dumb. I didn't see the guy like that and a guy confessing his heart to me is very rare to me. He came by the house and it was very awkward to see him. A week later I got some advice from my sister and I asked her if I should go for it because it had been a long time since I dated. Later then I finally told the guy I  want to give him a chance but not as an official couple. We were talking for about two months, the first few days was very awkward and I just wanted to end things. BUT then things changed my mind and I kept talking to him. Then I kept talking to him because I slowly started developing feelings for him too. I told a close friend of mine that I want to make things official on his birthday and she was excited for the guy and I to become official. The day was near and at midnight I finally hit him up. I told him I wanted to become official and he was really happy well that's what he said in the text message. The next day we saw each other but we didn't get to really talk. I texted him all day on his birthday through text message. The next day we texted but he went to hang with friends. Little did I know that there was another girl that had developed feelings for him too. I saw his messages with the girl saying how he is going to miss them and how beautiful she is and that he can't take his eyes off of her. My heart shattered into pieces reading those messages. I called him but he kept rejecting my calls and text messages. Then my guy best friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up. Like he broke up with me through my best friend which is a messed up move. To all guys out there, it's not good to play with girls hearts like it's some toy. And don't waste their time.