This is complicated

Uhm.. hello ^^" i figured out that i could post this on social media to hear your thoughts guys, and this isn't related to TaeNy... but i need help. 

I have a crush on someone i'm not close with.. my crush is actually close to my bestfriend.. that's how we met, i started liking him for his talent and skills.. we have the same talent, drawing.. so every contest.. we would attend them and i couldn't stop glancing at him during the contests.. i wanted to give him a chance to become 1st place crbauz i always come out as first.. hey am not bragging people!! But i think people would be quite disappointed so i just aim my goal.. so let me get straight to the freakening point, 

 

i like him very much, i'm dead for him, gave my whole to him and gave all my attention and other things to him.. and now he knows that i have feelings for him because my bestfriend kinda made it obvious to him.. uuggghh and even though he knows.. he still talks to me, like he knows nothing AT ALL T-T

now that he knows.. i'm itching to confess my ty feelings for that guy but i think it will ruin my friendship with him.. i'm too scared.. like really really scared especially because it's my first time falling for someone this hard... i know i'm stupid, yeeehhh call me stupid.. i'm suffering a sickness called love sick and i can't cure it unless i release all this feelings that's trapped but if i do.. i could probably ruin my connection with him and i don't want that.. like really.. N.O that's a NO NO.. T-T 

 

what should i do? Helpeu!~ 

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Lion-heart #1
Just go with the flow.. love does make people do crazy things, that's the best thing tho.. if he doesn't love back, his so stupid I'm might say.. cause he doesn't see how a precious person like u appreciate him..
_Polarity
#2
It's even more terrifying to not confess and knowing you might be too late. I'm not good with advice, but take your time, confessing is solely up to you and i dont think it would ruin a friendship. There are all those 'what ifs' but I assure you keeping it all to yourself can be painful and sometimes can have a huge burden on you both mentally and physically. This is your decision to make just remember to always take care of yourself
dominicaly #3
Dont confess,u cant fight a battle without a strong weapon...make him miss u...
dominicaly #4
Play the game girl......give him full attention for atleast a while...like 5 days....and then after that treat him like a normal friend...i mean like,ignore for atleast 5-10 days,treat him a little coldly,or show a little attention to a different guy...but before u do that,observe him first before u play the game,just try it...there is a lot of game u can play but i think lets just try the easiest one...
kritika06
#5
Don't think too much.. Just try Atlist... U can do it... Good luck..
sleepingprince
#6
I think there's no harm to try than to wonder about the what if? At least you don't have to beat around the bush that can be emotionally draining . Also if you know the answer , if he accept it than good you can move on to next step but if he doesn't , at least you don't waste too much time on him . All the best to you . Think properly and confessed at the right time. Do what's best for yourself
assnnny
#7
wow this is like a fanfic hehe...why don't you give it a try...may be he is shy to confess first