From one of my blogs, I've shared that I don't really have fortune in a friendship. But, I also shared that I always try to be a good friend for everyone, so I think I wanna share about it based on my own experience. I hope it can help whoever read this and will get more luckiness in a friendship~ ♡

1. "Don't ever treat your friends generally"

If you treat them "generally good" then it's absolutely okay, but still if you are a good friend you will find out that every of your friends are different and you should know how to treat them. For example, if you have a very sensitive and soft-hearted friend, you shouldn't say bad things easily to that kind of friend (even though that friend suddenly become so annoying, your friend definitely has reason why. You need to find out that friend's reason before blaming or even judging him/her~). Maybe that friend will feel so hurt and feel so attacked. You can tell that friend slowly and in a way it will make that friend feel comfortable and also will definitely listen to what you will say.

2. "Take and give"

It's a must! You should take turns to take care each of your friends. Communication is very important here, but if you have a reserved friend or a friend who might has problem but don't want to share, you should be the one who ask them in a comfortable way for them whether you will be needed or can help them.

3. "Knowing who you are"

If you are in a group of friends, it's very important to know "who you are in your group" like are you the leader or the joker. The important thing is "Don't take anyone's roles!" You should be yourself and don't try to be anyone else. Except it would cause a crisis identity problem, your friend that you "copying" will feel so uncomfortable and also will feel that you are stealing his/her identity. Remember that even if you can't make everyone love you, but at least you can love yourself by being who you are and as a plus your friends will feel comfortable around you.

4. "Be sensible"

From my own experience, if you are in a group of friends you will have one or two or more friends who are closer to you. They will always understand you better, defend you and be by your side (how lucky of them who have friends like that~). But! Not everyone have friends like that. You should be sensible enough about this because the friend who don't have closer friends or loyal friends will feel so alone even though he/she is in a group of friends. It would be great if there is a friend who is a friend to everyone and caring to everyone (that person is an angel from all angels~! ♡).

5. "Love, Understanding, Respect and Communication"

I think the four of them are the most important  things in every relationship including in a friendship. If you and your friends can have those things, your friendship will last long and you can say, it's a perfect lovely friendship. But, it is so hard to earn because everyone are uniquely different in their own way and also a "perfect" thing is different for everyone. But again, it is not impossible to earn the four of them in your friendship. If you believe in it then it would be achieved~

I actually don't know if whatever I've written here will help or not, but I just want to share things from my experience. A friendship is so precious to me, so I hope people who read this will think the same and never give up to find the friendship. Also if you already have a friendship, you will treat your friends better~ Because they are your friends, each of them is a human not a doll or a puppet, your friend have a heart that he/she can feel so hurt if you are the one who hurt him/her when your friend think that you are his/her precious friend...

P. S. DON'T EASILY JUDGE ANYONE!! ANYONE HAVE AT LEAST A REASON WHY HE/SHE DOES SOMETHING, EVEN THOUGH WHAT THEY DO IS SO DIFFERENT AND FAR FROM WHO ARE THEY THAT YOU'VE KNOWN.