Just me being random

Warning -  what I'm going to say down here are random stuffs, so be warned.

 

As some of you know, I'm now working nonstop to earn extra money. Monday till Friday, I've a morning fixed stable job. While in the evening throughout weekdays I do have a part time job as tuition teacher for school children. And during weekends, im working part time as a waitress in Secret Recipe for full shift which mean starting from 9.30am to 10.30pm. 

And what I'm going to say now is that please be considerate towards pregnant ladies, especially pregnant staff. Why? Okay, there is this colleague of mine (in Secret Recipe) that confided to me that she is pregnant with a child (accident baby) and she was not married at that time, now they are without their parents consent. Okay, I won't judge how you want to do with your life as it is surely non of my business. But because now it involves an innocent soul, I just can't help but poke my nose in her business. At first she told me she wanted to abort the baby because the guy didn't want to take ereaponaible for it nor she was ready to be a mother as she is just 19yo. And so I told her, look the baby is innocent and he/she is brought to this world be a use of you and that guy's mistake for not using any protection! (She told me he didn't spill in her but on the mattress so she wondered why she pregnant to which I facepalm, okay it is science and so I don't wish to elaborate more here)

And today I clocked in late because something happened in my house and by the time I reached there. I did noticed that she was not in the mood, I mean her facial expression showed it all. And so, I went over to give her a hug to which she hugged me tight. I knew she must be on her mood sswing because of her changes in hormones. Later when I had my break, I told her that I'm going to help her out in buying some baby clothes (since I'm financially more stable than her) and she was very happy and smiled. Then time flied and so we had our closing. I was wiping the utensils when I saw her leaving. And then all hell break lose. Everyone was vompalining about her! Saying she left early or that she ordered others to help cleaning and all. I was pissed. I mean you can't allow a pregnant lady to mop the floor as she may slip and harm her baby. And talk about mood swing, hey you lady. You're a girl too and you too have your PMS and now that she is being pregnant for the first time in her life, of course she is not comfortable and all. I just can't tolerate them for being so mean to her and I'll be very interested to know how they will react when it is their turns in being pregnant with a child. How would you feel and all when others being mean to you!

 

On the bright side, there is this baby boy who managed to made me smile and laugh at him. When his family came into the cafe, he was screaming on top of his lung in his baby chair. But when I walked over to take their orders, he suddenly kept quiet and looked at me with his super big and cure eyes. Just when I started taking orders he called out in a super sweet voice - kakak (which means sister in Malay) and nudged my hand. His parents just laughed at his action and I was like - yes baby, what do you want? He did it a few times and every time he did so, his parents will be laughing at him but, yes there is a but, his sister (around 3/4, I guess) was glaring at me haha. And when I told this to my brother who picked me up from work, he was laughing too as he thought that baby boy is being naughty (opposite attracts logic haha)

Yea, that's all of my randomness. I need to go and take my bath and sleep as I need to work tomorrow. So, good night, sleep tight and sweet dreams guys!

 

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sleepingprince
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I think no matter what decision we made in life, we must always be prepared to be responsible . The way we react n think will have a big impact . She's only 19 . I think maybe she should talk and have a proper discussion with her partner and also family members. I have friends who are parents at that age too. But they took up the challenge n responsibility despite of the obstacles. I think if she have the right thinking , it's possible to raised the baby . However, she needs to be sure that she can and will provide her all for the child. She must accept and love the child . Basically she needs to be mentally and financially prepared. Also she need to get married legally before the baby is born or else she might have trouble to register the birth certificate ... It's not easy to raise a child with current economy let alone without any support.