Coming out? Not really

Hi to everyone who is reading this...

I was reading something and thought of posting here..

So am Pan aual...

Pan because regardless of gender if I like someone I like them, gender doesn't matter to me, aual because I don't have ual attraction to that person no matter how much I like.

I am like this mushy cheesy little but I can't express it to the other person, I will just suffered alone. But I don't want to do ual .

Mmm... And I always felt like do I need a label? But to think of it, it feels better to define it and have a label like.. I belong here.. I am not weird sort of feeling yanno.

When I was in school,I had these dumb of friends who called me abnormal/weird because I don't have those " raging teenage hormones" like all the others, so there is something wrong with me and I need to consult a doctor. Smh yes, they did that!! * Face palm* * feeling like kicking their * but they dumb. So yep.. am over it now.

The reason am posting is cuz it can help someone to understand themselves a little, I didn't had anyone to tell me that I was normal, having no ual attraction is normal, and not having any is normal. Even if some thinks it might not be normal, it's oKAY, AM NOT SOME PSYCHOPATH WHO IS ON KILLING SPARE OR SOMETHING. lmao.. ok

Bye take care...

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mintalien #1 Oct 21, 2017 14:50:45

Hi. Thanks for sharing. I hope you will find your someone soon :)

satbranch #2 Oct 21, 2017 09:10:26

I have more respect for you I hope you will find the person who they /you will love and and understand . As I have been thinking about me in this situation ....but am not putting label on my self . Good luck dear.

satbranch #3 Oct 21, 2017 09:07:07

For me that is totally normal . Not matter what the gender it is okay to love .... as far that ual things is not important and it is sad how people who are 15 or teenager think it Is okay and they have to loose there v card

xoxONEW #4 Oct 21, 2017 08:05:16

and i dont want people to label me. but i am certainly looking for a group i b elong to

xoxONEW #5 Oct 21, 2017 08:02:59

Aww jagi those lil s of yoir friends. i would have kicked them. You know what we would have been besties if we were in the same school :)...

and yeah we both are holy marys ... The world can go to hell if they have problem with that

NoorKyra #6 Oct 21, 2017 07:21:34

Hmmmmm.... It's okay if you like somebody but the like that you have is not like some point that you want to throw yourself at the person you like,you know in ually.

I think that's kind a honest kind of like regardless of the gender... Girls or boys.
I think it's okay that you're still a even in your mid twenties anyway.

I don't see that as abnormal.

Hmmm.....

Change17 #7 Oct 21, 2017 06:51:26

its really cute and kinda brave (sry idk a better word rn) that you post this <3 i hope you have 'better', more mature and understanding persons as friends now. because really you're by no means not normal. <3

tipahnoona #8 Oct 21, 2017 06:16:55

congratulations and glad it made you feel better within. sometimes we say things out loud, not for others to hear but for our own ears. may this sharing helps others in similar situation. thanks for sharing and have a great day!