Former Taemins_LittleNoone -I feel like quitting AFF

hi guys...i dont know whats wrong with me but lately i have been super tensed and bummed out at the same time.

I am not happy...I dont feel pretty and i dont have a boyfriend or had a date in a long time. I feel undesirable, and i am in recovery right now as well.

I am super bored and no one wants to cheer me up i feel like...

I feel like quitting AFF for a few months.

I'm just really sad and upset. Life .

I cant sleep...and i am tired all the time :(

Please cheer me up guys!

I dont know if i will leave quite yet or not...so yeah.

Saranghae!!!

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kpop_addict4ever
#1
Don't leave! We love you :) It might be a bit hard right at the moment but don't get bummed out! We're all here for you <3
sungs0ngmin15
#2
NO!!
don't quit..
yes things right now is not doing good to you, but at some point, it will turn out to be good, like in the stories we make, your stories, at first everything in life is misplaced, horrible or even worse, but we manage to make it lighter and happier dispite the struggles, so don't loose hope.. we (your friends here in aff) are always open and always here for you/ for each other..
Golden-Blood
#3
NO D:
don't quit~ I know things are hard right now and you're not in a very good position in your life, but things /will/ get better. ):
the last thing we (your friends on aff) want is for you to feel lonely/forgotten or sad. we're all here to support you.
my inbox is always open~
TheKnees
#4
Chingu ya noooooo :( You can always talk to me or anybody you feel here. I am pretty sure we all have found some good friends here even if we've never seen each other. And we are share something even if it's our loneliness. So hit me up or anyone I am sure we can cheer you up cause we appreciate you a lot :)
sleepingprince
#5
Hi there :) NoonaYoung sent me here to talk to you. She told me that she feels sad to know that you'l be deactivating your account. She truly care for you . And I hope that you'l be able to feel her sincerity and maybe change your mind after you hear us out. Look is important but look is not everything. Everyone is special and unique in their own way. Imagine what will the world be if everyone starts to look the same just to fit in crazy beauty standards ? If everyone look the same there will be no more diversity , no more choice in life and that itself will make life less colourful. Dont you think so ? I think as long as you put in some effort to take good care of your skin and health in general you'l be fine just the way you are. I personally think and feel that pretty or good looking people are the ones with confidence. To be pretty you need to accept yourself for who you are and start loving the way you are. In this world there's only one you and that itself already make you so special than you already are. Your personality can also make up for your looks too. In my opinion people are more attraction to personality wise as compared to looks because everyonr knows that look dosent stay forever. As for date , i think everything will come to you at the right time when its meant to be. Instead of worrying or stressing too much over it , I think you should focus on self improvement. There's a saying that goes this way the better person you become the better person you will attract . Get yourself prepared mentally and physically. Get to know and understand yourself better , what kind of guy are you looking for , what is your plan for the future and etc... Then when the time comes at least you will not be at loss. When it comes to love life its best not to rush. Take your time to get to know each other well enough before you make your decision. I have not been dating for a long time too. I think its not too bad to be single as well since you have more freedom and time for yourself. Since you are still in your recovering state , I think you should use this time to focus more on your well being first. Before you start to date , its best to be in your best condition mentally and also physically so that you can create more happy memories together instead of having trouble to explain or to deal with own issues that might effect the relationship. I think nowadays there's many people who prefer to settle down much later as compared to the usual age. Its important to be with the right person rather than to rush things . You're still young to be honest. Dont limit your choice and dont settle for less when you deserved the best. Be patient . When you feel bored maybe you can do some exercises , listen to some music , catch up with kpop news , drama or movie , play with your nieces , maybe help around the house , play with your dolls , go hang out with your friends and do fun activities. Its good to find yourself a hobby or two for you to pass your time. If you cant sleep at night , try not to play with your phone or gadgets 1/2 hours before bed time , drink some milk , listen to some soft instrumental song, make sure you didnt take a long nap in the evening , spent some time to do your prayers , and basically just try relax your mind. If you are at peace and calm you can sleep better. Try to meditate , read some positive quotes to boost your confidence . I read that eating bananas can help make your mood feel better. The smell of rain can reduce stress too. You must change the way you think and feel about yourself. Changes comes from within. Take some time off if you need , but make sure to come back when you are ready. There's alot of people who care for you and support you. Sometimes they cant be there to remind you constantly that they care but do know that you are always in their thoughts. Dont give in to negativity , dont give up hope and most important have more faith in yourself. Life is worth living . You need to believe in yourself . Stay strong and I hope that you'l feel better soon.
ChoiMinHyun
#6
Hey there~ Don't feel down~ I know how bad things can get but you know what? There will always be a rainbow at the end of the bridge.
I have no idea what I just said but anyway if you want I can write up a new fic for you haha but you'll probably have to wait up a little while cause I am currently facing major blank brain disease hahaha
Cheer up! You can always dm me and request for something ;)
Yeonjunkookie7
#7
Don't feel down. I know how you feel. But things will get better soon. I'm sure of it. :)

I can't say whether you are pretty or not because I don't know what you look like but your personality is beautiful. I'm sure you'll find someone who likes you for who you are.

I get bored sometimes ads well but you just try to look for something that will entertain you for the mean time.

PS: I haven't forgotten about your request. I'm still working on it. Also have you thought about a title yet?
NoonaYoung
#8
I feel you tho. Recently my friend and I had the same problem and after we tried to cheer each other up, now, though not everything, but something is good.

It's good that you let it out instead of bottling up inside.

Don't feel pretty, have no boyfriend, not dated in sometime - well, that's me. I'm not pretty. My last relationship was 7 years ago and I'd been single and available till now. I feel sad too but I try to look into the positive way. Yes, we do need a shoulder to elan on, someone to listen and talk us out when we have a problem. But being alone doesn't seem that bad. It trains us to be stronger than we had imagine us can be. We have all the free time in the world to pamper yourself. Being in a relationship needs commitment. And you must be very responsible. As for me, I'll wait till I'm up to par, fully readied then I'll go ahead.

Hmmm....being bored. I feel that too sometimes. I'm bored of songs, writing or my cat. What can I do? Workout. Burn some extra fat of mine. You can try too. Yoga? Tai Chi?

Life really !!! I really agree to this but we must go on too. Nothing is gonna stop just because we feel it . In the end, it is us to see how we should walk out of it.

Can't sleep at night. Try meditation? I'd tried that after counting lambs or music can't help me to dreamland.

Cheer up baby, cheer up baby!!
*wish to know the full lyrics of Twice cheer up"