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I think sometime I become too much when it comes to loving someone... I'd worry about small details; I'd be worried if I don't hear from them... Sometimes I think I become a bit possessive (I don't know if it's a bit or not) I'm a bit confused and not really feel good to ask this to my real friends... 

 

Do people get annoyed with the types like me?

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sleepingprince #1
Its okay to worry about the person that you care .. I think its sweet and lovely to have friends that take good care of each other. However there should be some space in between for them to breath and do their own things as well. A healthy relationship / friendship should consists of trust , space and privacy . Over protective isnt healthy.. As long as you balance it well i think your friend would be thankful instead of annoyed
yeoja12 #2
I think worry are being possessive are two very different things. Worry usually comes from wanting to protect someone. You can worry about where and who your loved one is with because you want them to be safe. I think that worry is a sign of true feelings for someone. But being possessive usually comes from worry about yourself. If you worry about being hurt or losing trust from the loved one, it's easy to want to control what they do. It gives you protection.
I don't know if people really get annoyed. But I think if someone feels the need to be possessive when loving someone, then maybe the communication isn't good, or maybe the love isn't right. You shouldn't have to protect yourself from someone you love.
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