A question

So imagine this !

 

You have a friend. Same gender best friend.Your best friend. You know her/his since you can talk. Your whole life, she/he is your anchor , the one who always there for you. Never failed to be with you. You owe her/him so much.

That person is your partner in crime. Your everything. 

But what if you caught your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on you with that certain best friend. What will you do?! What will happen ?! Will you forgive your best friend or not? 

 

p/s: notice that my focus is the best friend not the cheating boyfriend/girlfriend?

 

WAIT ! IM NOT IN THIS SITUATION ..IT JUST A QUESTION.

 

 

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mylchris #1
lolx i was in a similar situation myself before.... the guy just led me on... the one he really likes is my friend....and i tell you it hurts like a ... for that friend of yours it's pretty normal she will get hurt.. because no matter what the explanation is... her bestfriend still betrayed her.... her bestfriend should have been honest to the very start... better to stay true and be honest than finding out for yourself that u have been betrayed or cheated on.. your friend may hear her bestfriends side but don't expect that things will be back the way it was before..
Gagagugu #2
If my best friend not gonna explain to me the situation and apologise and everything else ...then goodbye to you
sweetfabglam #3
No. The thing is, real friends wont betrayed you or even let you down. As you say, you've been through so much but still managed to betrayed then i guess that person doesnt really value the friendship that you have
daralover03198926 #4
A talk is needed,know her side first.whats the reason...but not now...clear your mind first...and when your ready talk...
Abixxx #5
For me. I will talk to her, but not right now.. I need to compose my self first. Because I don't trust my self in that state (hurt and lost). I might say or act something that I will regret later if I talk to her in that instant. When I'm ready, then I will hear her side but things will never be the same again. If she really loves me, why will he cheat with the man I love the most? if she will regret it, it will take time to forgive her. But I cannot forget what she did to me. And I guess, Bestfriends relationship are really over. Because a true Bestfriend will never do that to you.
dillatiffa #6
Forgive, but not forget.. And then the friendship kinda turn raw.. But for the sake of the friendship, trying to put it aside.. That one make mistake she made gonna haunt for the rest of our life..

*me imagining, not that I ever in the situation, thanks ya Allah...
MissMinew #7
I'd have a conversation with the best friend and figure out what happened. If they're just a total and don't regret it or anything, then to hell with them.
LokiCraze123 #8
Me personally would not talk to my best friend for a long time considering she/he knows everything about me and she/he has been with me throughout the years. I would also try to confront her because it just isn't right to do things like that. Over time, I would forget about it, but I won't forgive her/him So easily and the relationship wouldn't be the same. Basically, I would need my space before deciding if I want to keep the friendship or not.
corea18 #9
Talk to her
HelloLia #10
No. I would not even talk to my bestfriend. Explaining to me his/her reason was going to be useless because he/she basically new everything about me but still cheated on me. I don't want to be a martir and forgive my bestfriend right away, but I think time will heal everything, so then by that time I could finally talk to my bestfriend. I will just let my bestfriend new my pain. I don't beleive he/she will still be my bestfriend after this, maybe just a friend.
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