I need advice...bad...

Hi guys...lately I have been sad and thinking,...

Im already 29 and no boyfriend or husband and I'm not even in the dating scene. I haven't been in a long time. I don't like the idea of online dating sites, I just don't trust them. I don't want to be alone anymore...it's driving me crazy!!

Can u guys give me advice on what I should do? I don't want to ask my friends to hook me up because all their friends are either weird or creepy. I don't know what to do..at this point I feel like I'm going to be forever alone :(

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HELP!!! What should I do? :(

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lydia435 #1
I actually do not have any advice, but I think you should be yourself in the end no matter who you meet. When you meet the one, you'll know immediately and don't worry! You have time! Also, if you don't like your friends to set you up, then I think you should try to talk to strangers at like a bakery or the market.
k_fierce
#2
Learn to network. Meet new people. Well go on group friend dates or something. Meet more mutual friends who aren't weird lol
MistressLuna
#3
Just be yourself, I guess....

(I'm awful when it comes to dating advice.)
jojojoana
#4
Let's go hunting for men XD
demonessrin #5
Just be who you are with people be it awkward or outgoing. To be with some one takes a lot of heart from anyone. Ask your friends for help. See if they have any advice as well. I am 28 and happily taken and he showed up on my doorstep one night. I wish you luck with everything. If you need help you can talk to anyone on here.
samasbananas
#6
Ask friends to set you up. Yes their friends might be creepy or weird, but that will give you experience and you'll know how to act on a date. Also to help with confidence, just try making small talk with people. Being confident is half of the battle. In the dating world, you have to know what you want and go for it! By going on practice dates and talking to strangers, it will help you build confidence to talk to boys you think are cute.

But just remember that love, like all things in this world, takes time and patience. Don't force anything and be open to what the world has to offer. Until it does happen though, work on yourself and be the best person on your own. Other people can't make you better; only you can achieve that
Sandiii #7
OMG actually? I'm surprised there are older ppl on this site O.O anyways I don't think you should rush things. Good things come at the most unexpected times. I don't think you should be in a rush at all because like others have said, it's more important to find someone that you truly have a genuine connection with rather than just finding someone because you feel lonely or for the idea of just having a boyfriend. For me, I'd rather just wait it out, because I do believe that if two people were meant to be with each other, they will eventually find one another. It's easy for me to say cause I do have much more time before I reach 30, but I think when the right person comes along, you'll just know. Besides, some first generation idols are getting married at like 36 so no need to worry! XD
MeinAltire #8
Well, I don't think I can help you since I'm in the same situation as you. Maybe you can built a new friendship, meeting new people and all. Your working partner maybe can help you, try to play and mingle with their friends, who know you'll find someone there. I think it will come to you on the right time, don't worry too much and just enjoy the present...
sleepingprince
#9
Actually I think love come when you don't actually expect it to be ? There's nothing much that you can do except maybe putting alittle more effort to meet new people and build a wider connection in terms of social contact .. Don't worry too much about it. The more you stress about it the harder it'l be just go with the flow .