Am I Wrong

Today, i heard about the whole Rion vs Joonmyeon thing. This makes me sick to my stomach. I didn't know all or most the details, how extensive it was until today, but as a person who has been ually harassed before, it hurts me to my core that he had to deal with that. It gets me thinking how much ual harassment idols are forced to endure through fanmail, fake fans, haters, fanfiction, and touchy fans. It makes me feel so bad for them since they can't do anything about it. I want to vomit.

Although it isnt exactly the same, nor am I defending Rion's actions, but i have said some racy stuff. seeing how uncomfortable it made Joonmyeon feel makes me feel disgusting and regretful of every suggestive thing I've said or fanfiction that I've read.

What is your stand on the whole situation? Most of it is for reassurance that I shouldn't hate Rion and myself for bad choices. If there is any update on their situation too, feel free to rant here.

This is just all too much.

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SheirynFiya #1 Feb 26, 2017 08:07:46

Its alright to be a fan who supports your idols whole heartedly, but not until the said person himself feels uncomfortable about it :/

zan8901 #2 Feb 26, 2017 02:59:00

She's an obsessive stalker who says and does things without thinking about how anyone else will feel. What she did was selfish, and I feel horrible for Junmyeon having to deal with it. Can't imagine how uncomfortable he must have felt, but hopefully, he's alright now. =D That's all that matters! And to you, it's okay. As long as you have learned from your mistakes, then I believe you're alright. And remember that actions speak louder than words. =D What you say doesn't equal what this Rion person did, but like I said, if you're aware of your mistakes, then you can learn and move on from them!