Having been an MeU (f(x) fandom name) since 2013 (the group that brought me to SHINee a year after that), I saw how the girls worked hard for us fans. I saw their passion in what they are doing and appreciated every single second of their existence.

2014 came and the news about Sulli dating a man 14 years her senior shook me a bit, but I soon got over it after some weeks of contemplating.

When she left f(x), I felt my bond on her gradually breaking, not because of Choiza or anything about her relationship I swear, but some circumstances. (but that's a diff story so i will stop talking about her here) and if that makes me a 'mean' fan then go on im ready to accept all bashes. I'm still happy for what Sulli is happy for though. Just a bit worried

And now, Krystal is dating Kai of EXO.

I don't know but I was like, "OKay, they were friends and they match each other. So happy for them."

I still have my stigma when it comes to EXO members, but as Taemin's bestfriend, I saw Kai as a fine young man, so I was very fast at accepting the relationship news.

The sad thing is, I saw this f(x) fanpage saying f(x) will never be the same again and she is disappointed with Krystal. And that our Princess' standards should have been higher than Kai. LOL WTH is she talking about

why? is the admin Krystal herself? Who is she to judge the two because of dating. We have to face it, we are fans, and we have no right to decide who will they date, who will they love, who will they have a one night stand, who will they marry... Our princesses and princes are HUMANS like us. Why, if we love someone, and they love us back, don't we want to date them? If you feel your heart skipped a beat or two for a person's smallest acts, do we still remember the standards? They also feel that way. Idols also love. Idols also want to have some freedom. Idols also want to do the things we ordinary people are doing. idols have feelings, have their own minds to decide for what they want, etc.

They are not some gods and goddesses to be worshipped, and not slaves to be ordered around on what to do.

I still remember the BaekYeon back then, where fans kept on bashing taeyeon and baekhyun for dating each other. and those ships? like TaeNy, etc. comments on the posts are just so... /sighs/ shipping is fun but dont let it affect the reality

If you cannot be happy for unnie or oppa now, or never will be, I just hope that their own fans won't despise them just for following their hearts like normal human beings do. Respect the fact that they are humans who can decide for themselves.

And an idol being single doesn't define him/her as a person and performer. remember that

Congrats to KaiStal. I just wonder when SHINee will have dating scandals tho :3 I mean, they're on the right age to marry. I wish for them to find one fine lady that will make them happy. It may hurt at the beginning but that's life XD if you truly love someone you'll know the meaning of acceptance and sacrifice.

/munches on Jjong's abs junk foods/